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| I prefer playing with women, but I will make the occasional exception. In my experience, I just feel safer with women. I am engaged, so I am not looking for any sort of romantic liaison. I am not looking to be owned. I would like a regular playing partner, someone who knows me inside out.
I don't top. Ever. I tried once with my best friend, and failed. I tried!! My best friend is the one who introduced me to this lifestyle, and I have been exploring it for a little less than seven years.
I typically play with moderate intensity, though I would certainly like to push my limits a little bit more. I have not played with regularity until recently, and I am excited to continue to stretch my knowledge and experiences.
NOTE TO POTENTIAL DOM(ME)S: Guess what? If you're a troll, or a fake, I'm going to notice. Seriously. I will typically be able to tell within five minutes of our conversation. It's the way you carry yourself. The way you talk to me. BDSM isn't about someone treating you like a God, and being treated like shit themselves. Sure, that could be part of someone's scene. But a good, healthy BDSM relationship revolves around a mutual relationship, no matter what that means. I have no qualms shutting down conversations with you, if I feel as though you are not what I'm looking for in a play partner.
NOTE: Play partner does NOT EQUAL sex partner!! Penetration of ANY sort is a BIIIIIG hard limit. Let's be creative here.
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