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Hetero Male Master, 50,  Nashville, Tennessee
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SlaveVS2012

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I am writing this in order to try to find exactly what I want.

  1. You must currently and actively be employed. Not going to school in hopes of finding a job, but have yourself some kind of income
  2. Children are welcome but must be discussed
  3. I do not allow for extended periods of "getting to know each other". You will be required to meet me as soon as I am ready and if you refuse you will be blocked, ignored, and I will move on. I do not play games and neither should you
  4. You will be required to talk on the phone and video conference within the first 3-5 conversations. No exceptions tolerated. If you fail to comply, you will be blocked and ignored and I will move on
  5. Know that I am looking for my last sub/switch/slave. I know my beginning and my end, I only want you to help me write in the middle. Are you that one?
  6. Your submission needs to come from your heart, mind and soul, which should be the bedrock of your submission because if it is some fetish that you "live" then it is based on emotions and emotions change from situation to situation. KNOW where your submission lies and be sure it is in you to submit like breathing air is required for you to live, for that is what I require of my sub/slave/switch.
  7. If your submission is in your soul, heart, and mind, know that I will penetrate all 3 and tear them down utterly and totally, and then build you back up so strong that not even "kryptonite" can cause you harm...
  8. My specialty is getting into a woman's mind which is her true source of strength and making that even more submissive and stronger at the same time. We will discuss this deeper at the appropriate time.
  9. If you have read this far down and are still reading then by now you know that I am very clear on what it is that I seek. If you intend to write me back put the word "Clemson" somewhere in the first line of your message and I promise you, you WILL get a response for reading this profile thoroughly.
Note: I have lost 38lbs to date. I am winning the battle of the bulge using a method of controlling my blood sugar level. I am NOT diabetic in case you are wondering, I have no health issues. I am just enjoying watching the lbs fall off. I should have thought of this before. In closing let me say that I look forward to hearing from the few that will contact me. If you read this know that I am much much more than what is on this screen but this should be enough to wet your whistle so to speak. I hate to be so brutally blunt but as of late the emails I have been getting are starting to get tiresome. If you can follow the instructions provided above you WILL get a response from me guaranteed. Also please tell me what you want out of the relationship as a sub or slave... and what should be normal rules that a slave/sub should follow? Note: I have a career that allows me to live in any part of the country so do not let distance keep you from contacting me. Also I am NOT 420 friendly, have never been and never will be so if you are... get away from me!!!



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 VerypickyDom

 Dominant Male

 Nashville 

 Tennessee

 5' 7"

 230 lbs

 50

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 03/31/12

 10/26/14

Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fishing (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Gags (Expert)

 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Hypnosis (Expert)

 Leashes (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Orgasm Denial (Expert)

 Science Fiction

 Web Surfing

 Investing (Expert)

 Singing (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse (Expert)

 Mathematics (Expert)

 Nanotechnology (Expert)

 Physics (Expert)

 1950s Household (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Old Guard (Expert)

 Classical Music

 Jazz

 Rock Music

 Show Tunes

 Football

 Loves:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 Knife Play

 Historical Shows

 Newspapers

 Role Playing Games

 Sitcoms

 Biology (Expert)

 Chemistry (Expert)

 Economics (Expert)

 Paranormal

 Psychology (Expert)

 Blue Grass

 Blues

 Heavy Metal Music

 Pop Music

 Seventies Music

 Christianity (Expert)

 Baseball

 Basketball

 Bowling

 Boxing

 Darts

 Golf

 Horse Racing

 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing

 Skiing

 Sky Diving

 Swimming

 Volleyball

 Wrestling

 Likes:

 Fisting (Expert)

 Masks (On Partner)

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Cartoons

 Chess

 Comedy Shows

 TV News

 Cooking

 Gardening

 Photography

 Archaeology

 History

 Writing

 Swinging

 Alternative Music

 Opera Music

 Auto Racing

 Tennis

 Curious About:

 Nutrition (Beginner)

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Low Carb

 Polyamory

 Hates:

 Crossdressing

 Dilation

 Enemas

 Country Music

 Hard Limits:

 Cuckolding

 Diet and Exercise

 Female Supremacy

 Goth Lifestyle

 Vampirism

 Veganism

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Journal Entries:
9/16/2012 10:48:00 AM

I am going to put this in writing so that I can remember it and possibly subs, slaves, and switches, will read it as well. When I first contact you sometimes, not always, but sometimes I can come across as being hugely pompous.  I am trying to let you know this upfront.  I tend to be this way in my business dealings and as such sometimes ruffle feathers even in my professional dealings but the bottom line is that I try not to be.  I am normally a very well liked individual in both personal and professional dealings, but sometimes I have to get things done in a hurry and thusly can be rather aggressive in my demeanor.  All I can do is ask forgiveness up front.  NO I am not doing this just to be abusive or arrogant, I just know me and how I am.  Unfortunately I do not know if this will change because being honest, a person's core does not change.  All I can ask is that you tell me if I am coming across that way and let me know... gently... that I am being a pompous jackass and I will know to tone it down.  I have another journal entry that will tell you right up front that I do make mistakes.  I do know this and am willingly acknowledging it, but I also know that I will do my best to keep it under control.  Just bare with me....


VPD


9/11/2012 8:11:52 PM

Something very strange happened this week.  Was talking to a sub just really general chat... She plainly told me that I was not her type.  I responded with class and wished her the best... She was totally flabbergasted at my response... to her answer I gave this response... " If I were to let such a trivial matter as your rejection cause me to get upset, how "in control as a Dom" would I really be?  Answer... "NOT AT ALL!!!"... We parted ways with good will to each other and she and I both moved on... Case closed...


Ladies:  If a Dom gets upset at your rejection of him, you must ask yourself the question... "is he really a mature Dom in the first place?"... just my thoughts and my own way of thinking... not meaning to deride everyone out here... but the logic does apply in my way of thinking...


9/9/2012 11:49:20 AM

Maybe I am out of touch with reality, but guess what, it is my reality I am talking about.  To me this is how it should go pretty much to a "T"...

  1. Message a potential woman
  2. She reads my profile and says "Yes, this man is someone I want to talk to"
  3. The woman replies with the proper response....
  4. I reply to her message and we are off to the races in communications
  5. After a bit of email messages... maybe a few days worth... then it should move to some chat client like Yahoo or MSN or GoogleTalk
  6. After a few chats there if the communications is good, then we move to cell phone and or webcam... (not for cyber sex either... I hate that stuff)
  7. Then we meet...

Ok now this whole situation should not take more than say... 2 weeks in my opinion.  Some would say that my reasoning is off kilter because it is so fast... but if you think about it... People meet with total strangers to get their taxes done, get their hair done, get their nails done, and those are in a public place and if you meet in a public place I do not see any difference in what i am saying, thus my logic of meeting in about 2 weeks holds water in my mind.  Now the sub has every right to disagree and refuse to meet me... but if you follow my logic (at least in my mind) it is sound.  Any questions please ask. 


VPD

 


9/8/2012 4:53:54 PM

Some lost causes are STILL worth fighting for!!!!!


9/8/2012 4:29:42 PM

Some people will think what I am about to say will make me appear weak.  But here is the truth...

Even us Dom's make mistakes... I know I made a huge one (possibly the biggest of my entire life) and it cost me.  This occurred a while back but it did occur.  Now even to look back on this mistake causes me intense internal and emotional pain.  I cannot undo it or even correct it as the consequences are a life time.  All I can do is apologize, which I did, and learn from it, and move on.  Which I have done.  I will not speak for all Dom's, but as for me... YES I do make mistakes!!!

 


9/8/2012 9:08:27 AM

Even with the amount of time and effort I put into my profile it appears that there are still some game players out there.  I expressly ask every sub/slave/switch to read my profile to be sure that they can handle a man like me.  Yet I still get women wanting to try my patience, tell lies, and try to manipulate me into playing their stupid little games.  This is getting really tiresome... So if you read my profile and or this message and do not like it's contents... MOVE ON!!!


8/3/2012 7:00:29 AM

Subs, slaves, and switches, I know it might be considered by some men that showing off your private parts is considered "sexual" but to me it is just revolting.  Please show some class and do not show off your privates to the world.  We simply do NOT want to see that right out of the bat. 


6/17/2012 8:33:34 AM

Young wannabe domme's just kill me by making me laugh so hard.  HOW in the hell can you call yourself "extremely experienced" when mom and dad are still holding the title to the very car you drive... I mean lets get real here... talk about living life a little and doing it under your own steam.... Geeze!!!


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