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Thoughtful, intelligent and very realistic man seeks the control of a similarly inclined Lady. Any and all arrangements are possible with the right Owner, certainly the slave is very open to discussion/ideas. The principal desire of the slave is to be controlled and to serve, to make his Owner's life better.
The only "hard limit" is discretion, which is both expected and assured.
As already stated this man is realistic and does not seek a fantasy scenario or a fantasy Mistress. he is very real in every sense.
Aside from his desire to serve the slave is even tempered, educated and likes to think of himself as witty and charming...or at least mildy amusing. he does not take himself too seriously though he will treat any opportunity to serve with due gravity and the Lady with great respect.
The slave is clear in his mind what service entails and is not seeking a girlfriend or romance (etc.).
For work reasons the slave is not posting a proper photograph of himself but would like to reassure any interested Lady that he is extremely average. he is happy to show himself on webcam to any Lady that is seriously considering offering him a position.
Although regular meetings are preferred, the slave would consider submitting to a Lady who lives in a different part of Ireland - he has recently purchased a CB3000 with numbered plastic locks, so is easily controllable by e-mail and webcam.
In fact chastity is something which the slave would very much like to experience and he is particularly interested in hearing from Ladies who might favour such a practice. The slave has long savoured the fantasy of being unable to climax without permission and, effectively, having no control over his libidinous functioning.
Please feel free to ask slave anything that comes to mind.
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i will be away for a few days (work, work, work). Although i do not expect it, i would be thrilled if somebody left me a message for my return...anyone at all :)
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i have been thinking about what it means to submit and to serve. It should not be merely a "trade-off" where the slave gets to live out his fantasy and in return performs a service of some sort. my hope is to find a Lady who will make use of me in any way She sees fit. Again, i would wish to be of practical use to a Woman and life is not all about leather boots and drama. Sometimes submission can be about emotional support and friendship, and sometimes it can be about digging a garden in the rain - or ironing curtains on a Saturday night. Or making a person smile when they feel down, maybe just finding the right words.
No doubt there are many people in this lifestyle who do favour drama, but there is a time and place for that. Certainly, from talking to a number of Dommes over the years, my impression is that a lot of slaves can be very dramatic. But to serve a real Woman in a real way - that would really be something, i think.
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The idea of chastity training has been with me for some time now. It seems to me to be the ultimate in control as, for men, the urge to ejaculate is like an unstoppable force. i wonder what it is like when that force is, in fact, stopped. From what i read it causes the male to become very submissive, very docile and desperate to please. As time passes his need haunts his every step, each breath becomes a sigh as the pressure and urgency builds. Eventually he becomes a twitchy, squirmy, emotional mess.
It must be great fun for the key-holder to observe these changes.
i'm not sure how long it takes for the male to become really uncomfortable and desperate to experience a release, but i know that many men (including me) have the urge to orgasm at least two or three times each day, so i imagine that desperation sets in fairly rapidly.
Why, i wonder, do i feel the need to experience this? When i wear my CB3000 it rarely stays on for more than an hour or two before i remove it and satisfy my longings. So, why do i want this?
Perhaps it is connected with my desire to serve and suffer solely for a Lady's pleasure / amusement / convenience. When deprived of an orgasm the service is truly rendered as a "pure" act of devotion.
Also, the idea of sacrifice appeals greatly - to offer this most intimate form of control to a Lady willingly, indeed to beg Her to accept my key, seems to me to be the ultimate in supplication. i can think of no greater surrender.
There is something very real and vital about chastity which lifts the Domme/sub exchange out of fantasy and into reality.
And that is what i seek - a real Woman, human and frail as we all are. Not a "perfect 10" in a leather bikini, but a genuine Lady who has a genuine desire to take control of a male and use him as She sees fit.
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| Age: 22 |
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