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I'm looking for a monogamous relationship. I'm here because you never know.
I'm interested in dating an interesting someone who just happens to love being dominant in the bedroom. ?In other words, I'm looking for a connection that can be maintained and is fulfilling beyond the kink. ?I'm a quirky, progressive, and professional chick. I'm silly, fun, and I speak my mind. I like comedy. I have a dark sense of humor. I love basketball . I have my own history podcast and I'm a big podcast nerd - especially comedy. I used to do stand up as a hobby.
I'm not sure if Daddy Dom describes accurately the complexity of what I'm looking for, but it might hint at it. I am looking for a very strong psychological connection - one where we can explore pushing boundaries. ?I like things that are more extreme than 50 Shades of Grey ;)....but probably not anything that would be considered hardcore. I love bondage. I enjoy total immobilization, being teased and objectified, with a little pain.
I like the dynamic that comes with being under someone's power and used...although I definitely like pleasure as well. I enjoy prolonged teasing and denial. I like connecting with someone who wants me to feel good.
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I love to please and be a "good girl" ....
I like being able to explore my inner child. I like swimming and baths.
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I'm looking for that elusive (and possibly nonexistent) person who has a very dark side, but who is balanced by a need to nurture and connect emotionally.?
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I like to hold and be held, nurture and be nurtured. Spoon and be spooned :)
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I can be ?emotionally/psychologically/physically/behaviorally submissive...but I'm also pretty intelligent. I have strong opinions, a sharp sense of humor, and a big laugh. ?I like to listen and learn. I don't do well with people who think they have all the answers. ?I like strong opinions and confidence, but I'm uneasy with over confidence. I'm interested in dichotomies. I like the idea that people can be more than one thing, and am fascinated by the inconsistencies in the world. ?I like holding two ideas in my mind at once.
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Having said all that, there is no high that I've experienced, like the high of giving up all power and being completely at the mercy of another person. Being completely controlled, being on my knees, being objectified.
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I am ultimately looking for a relationship. Too many expectations up front is unrealistic, but ultimately I'm not looking to be one submissive of many.?
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For better or worse, I'm not a 1950's house wife. ?I currently live more like a 30 year old bachelor ;) That's not to say that I'm unwilling to learn, change, and grow. ?It's just that if you're looking for a domestic goddess, I'm afraid your search must continue on to the next profile.
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Most things listed above are about fantasy. I want some fantasy. But I want some real too.
I am open minded on those things spiritual.
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