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VenomousNikki

WARNING: Be ready to read. First and foremost: Do not mistake my age for immaturity. I've been in the lifestyle for seven years and am intelligent enough to know what is what. I may be a submissive, but I will be the first to tell you to go to Hell if you offend me in a serious way. That said, I am a single mom and I work full time, if you cannot handle that do not message me. I do not bullshit, I have no time for that. In my world free time is my time for me, so when I get it I like to enjoy it. Part of my enjoyment comes from catering to others. That is not to say that I am slave material- I am far too opinionated and will not hesistate to tell you off. I know who I am, what I desire, and what I deserve. I tend to come off as a Domme, but feel uncomfortable in such a position of Power. Moving on, I have tattoos (five, two of which are visable) and piercings (septum, tongue, stretched ears). I am a redhead, and, yes, the carpet would match the drapes if there were carpet. I have hazel eyes (green/brown) and a friendly smile. I know I've come across as kind of a bitch, but that is because if you can make it past that you're obviously either determined or you recognize that I do know what I want and think we'd get along. I'm a genuine person. I do not like liars, cheaters, or stalkers, I have seen all three qualities in both men and women. On a personal level I am a nerd. I love my 360 (no FPS, though, I'm an RPG girl), I read more often than not, and my life would be a mess if my iTunes got corrupted. I love the Flyers, hate the Eagles, and don't watch baseball enough to give a damn, but I do root for the Phils. I'm family-oriented and my friends have all been around for years. I'm a smoker with no plans to quit anytime soon. I don't drink often, typically I will only have a few drinks in a social setting. I would rather play Fable III than party, but I do like to go out once in a while. What I am looking for: I will know it if and when I see it.
9/5/2014 10:00:55 AM
I receive many messages every day- I read them all.
If I respond it is because I think you may have something to say- something of substance and interest. 
If I do not respond it is because your message or profile were off-putting and I decided not to waste my time.

That being said- I am a very independent person in my life. I provide for myself and my daughter, I bust my ass working hard every day. I deserve respect, to be spoken to as a human being and as a strong woman. I don't appreciate being called a brat or bitch. I don't appreciate being told that I need to "learn my place"- I have EARNED my place among high ranking members of society and I will not be spoken to like a piece of meat.
3/24/2014 6:21:14 PM

So, I've been on and off this site for years, but the thing that constantly entertains me is the half naked 50+ people. 

 

I won't apologize for being shallow, I'm human and it's to be expected.

 

I'm not saying that I won't converse with someone twice my age, well..actually I probably won't, but if I'm going to it is NOT going to be a guy who looks like a grandpa in a leather vest and nothing else. That's too bizarre for me.

And kind of gross. Again, not sorry, I'm 24 years old and if you're taking offense to this it's probably because you're old enough to, at the very least, be my dad. You should not have less clothing on than me in your profile picture. I do not want to see your grey hair covered chest. Not my thing. 

 

Also, I am NOT a little/baby/whatever you want to call it. I don't want to call you Daddy or suck on a pacifier. I don't need or want your money. I don't want to be pampered and called baby girl. I'm a grown woman, I provide for myself, I do not need another father. Thanks, but no thanks.

AmandaGrey
 
 Age: 37
  North Carolina