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Bisexual Female Mistress, 44,  San Luis Obispo, California
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Vendaval - Dominatrix

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Friends:
philosophy mantis65 Musicmystery Archer SDFemDom4cuck
Thadius Outlier Nietzschi Caius LaTigresse
Lucylastic samboct LadyPact Aswad GreedyTop
camille65 MisterP61 humble75 ladynephilim Hillwilliam
Dastan ThatDamnedPanda Apocalypso Marini

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 Vendaval

 Femdom Dominatrix

 San Luis Obispo 

 California

 Under 5'

 44

 Bisexual

 Multicultural

 01/15/05

 02/24/16

Actively Seeking:

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Movies

 Musical Theater

 Body Worship

 Breast Binding/Play

 Canes and Crops

 Exhibitionism

 Foot Worship

 Massage (Getting)

 Mental Bondage

 No Strings Housework

 Role Playing

 Spanking

 Theatrical Scenes

 Whips

 Science Fiction

 Intellectual Discourse

 Writing

 Female Supremacy

 Alternative Music

 Blues

 Industrial Music

 Jazz

 Rock Music

 Druidism

 Neo-Paganism

 Wicca

 Loves:

 Art Galleries

 Beachcombing

 Coffee Shops

 Museums

 Renaissance Faires

 Travel

 Dancing

 Begging

 Bondage

 Collars

 Corsets

 Electrical Play

 Hair Pulling

 Hoods

 Humiliation

 Leashes

 Masks (On Partner)

 Obedience Training

 Objectification

 Orgasm Control

 Speech Restrictions

 Stockings

 Suspension

 Tickling

 Uniforms

 Wax play

 Cybering

 Historical Shows

 Cooking

 Drawing

 Herbalism

 Meditation

 Painting

 Photography

 Singing

 Archaeology

 Biology

 History

 Liberal Politics

 Occultism

 Paranormal

 Philosophy

 Poetry

 Psychology

 Goth Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard

 Polyamory

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music

 R&B

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes

 Hinduism

 Taoism

 Likes:

 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping

 Bird Watching

 Clubbing

 Fine Dining

 Fishing

 Opera

 SCA

 Shopping

 Volunteerism

 Camping

 Hiking

 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts

 Sailing

 Scuba Diving

 Snorkeling

 Tai-Chi

 Walking

 Weightlifting

 Yoga

 Blindfolds

 Cages

 CBT

 Corner Time

 Crossdressing

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Gags

 Knife Play

 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play

 Munches

 Needle Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Shibari

 Strap-Ons/Packers

 Vibrators

 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Cartoons

 Chess

 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies

 MMORPGs

 Newspapers

 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games

 Sitcoms

 Alternative Medicine

 Aromatherapy

 Art Collecting

 Astrology

 Beading

 Body Art

 Candle Making

 Gardening

 Karaoke

 Pottery

 Sculpting

 Sewing

 Tattoos

 Astronomy

 Blogging

 Nanotechnology

 Political Activism

 Swinging

 Vampirism

 Americana

 Blue Grass

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Funk

 Hip Hop Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Oldies

 Opera

 Operetta

 Punk Rock Music

 Rap

 Reggae

 Buddhism

 Catholicism

 Judaism

 Reiki

 Badminton

 Baseball

 Basketball

 BMX

 Body Building

 Bowling

 Darts

 Golf

 Horse Racing

 Kick Boxing

 Soccer

 Swimming

 Tennis

 Tolerates:

 Anal Play

 Chastity

 Dilation

 Enemas

 Romance Novels

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing

 Cross-Stitching

 Diet and Exercise

 Low Carb

 Veganism

 Country Music

 Pop Music

 Christianity

 Curious About:

 Gambling

 Fire Play

 Fisting

 Gas Masks

 Hypnosis

 Investing

 Knitting

 Online Auctions

 Soap Making

 Chemistry

 Cryonics

 Economics

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Victorian Household

 Dislikes:

 Raves

 Diapers

 Housework

 Serving as a Maid/Butler

 Watersports

 Conservative Politics

 Mormonism

 Scientology

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At present I am not looking.� The description below is for reference only.

I am a Female Dominant looking for male,�female, and transgender
submissives and switches.
I am Pagan, bi-sexual, polyamorous,
and a combination of Gothic and Tribal influences.� My passions include art, music, theatre, and literature.�� Personal tastes run to fantasy, science fiction, horror, and other forms of imagination and creativity.��

I treat my submissives and partners with courtesy, honesty, and respect and expect the same in return.� You are expected to be between the ages of 21 and 50, single,�be in good health, well groomed, have a good attitude and a willingness to try new experiences.� You should also be a good conversationalist,level-headed, even-tempered, and able to remain silent, patient, and attentive when the situation calls for it.� Must respect other players boundaries and confidentiality if attending a munch,
party or workshop.�

If you are a smoker, then outside smoking is required, light social drinking is fine on your own time,
not during a Scene.�Whether you are�
male or female or�transgender; a submissive or a switch; you are welcome to be�feminine,�androgynous, or
masculine.�

I also enjoy communicating with people
about shared mutual interests.� I have
met some wonderful�individuals here and�look forward to�making new friends.� The message boards are a
good place to learn new Kink information and�get to know�the other folks on this site.�

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6/25/2009 12:09:58 PM

From The Chicago Tribune, "Multi-love, it's complicated".  Thanks to Dom Ken for posting the article.

http://redeye.chicagotribune.com/red-062209-poly-main,0,4413481.story


6/25/2009 12:08:54 PM

"Civilization" by Marco Brambilla

Amazing video on Vimeo

http://vimeo.com/5082155

"Civilization is a video installation we created with artist/director Marco Brambilla for the elevators Standard Hotel in NYC. It's comprised of over 400 video clips and it takes elevator passengers on a trip from hell to heaven as they go up or from heaven to hell as they go down. Pictures of the installation and Q&A with Brambilla and Crush is posted here glossyinc.com/civilization.html"


6/17/2009 5:58:50 PM
http://kinkmeet.co.uk/

6/16/2009 8:54:35 PM
Quoted with permission from Orion, who heard this proverb originally from Master Chen,  
 "Fire determines right and wrong, if you are too close and it burns you, then you are wrong. If it warms you when you are cold, then you are right. If it blinds you, then you are wrong, if it guides you to contentment, then you are right."


5/14/2009 8:29:00 PM
A great quote from one of my favorite movies,
Shadow of the Vampire.



"F.W. Murnau: Our battle, our struggle, is to create art. Our weapon is the moving picture. Because we have the moving picture, our paintings will grow and recede; our poetry will be shadows that lengthen and conceal; our light will play across living faces that laugh and agonize; and our music will linger and finally overwhelm, because it will have a context as certain as the grave. We are scientists engaged in the creation of memory... but our memory will neither blur nor fade."


http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0189998/quotes

4/28/2009 12:38:32 PM
If you wish to send a "friend" request you need to be someone I know either in real life or from the Forums.  Complete strangers sending "friend" requests will be denied.

4/6/2009 11:29:03 AM
The Kinsey Institute has a wealth of information on human sexuality.  It makes for fascinating reading and research. 

http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-hhscale.html

4/1/2009 5:19:47 PM
"Loose Woman"

They say I'm a beast.
And feast on it. When all along
I thought that's what a woman was.

They say I'm a bitch.
Or witch. I've claimed
the same and never winced.

They say I'm a macha, hell on wheels,
viva-la-vulva, fire and brimstone,
man-hating, devastating,
boogey-woman lesbian.
Not necessarily,
but I like the compliment.

The mob arrives with stones and sticks
to maim and lame and do me in.
All the same, when I open my mouth,
they wobble like gin.

Diamonds and pearls
tumble from my tongue.
Or toads and serpents.
Depending on the mood I'm in.

I like the itch I provoke.
The rustle of rumor
like crinoline.

I am the woman of myth and bullshit.
(True. I authored some of it.)
I built my house of ill repute.
Brick by brick. Labored,
loved and masoned it.

I live like so.
Heart as sail, ballast, rudder, bow.
Rowdy. Indulgent to excess.
My sin and success--
I think of me to gluttony.

By all accounts I am
a danger to society.
I'm Pancha Villa.

I break laws,
upset the natural order,
anguish the Pope and make fathers cry.
I am beyond the jaw of law.
I'm la desperada, most-wanted public enemy.
My happy picture grinning from the wall.

I strike terror among the men.
I can't be bothered what they think.
Que se vayan a la ching chang chong!
For this, the cross, the Calvary.
In other words, I'm anarchy.

I'm an aim-well,
shoot-sharp,
sharp-tongued,
sharp-thinking,
fast-speaking,
foot-loose,
loose-tongued,
let-loose,
woman-on-the-loose
loose woman.
Beware, honey.

I'm Bitch. Beast. Macha.
W'chale!
Ping! Ping! Ping!
I break things.

Sandra Cisneros, Loose Woman


5/10/2006 1:31:45 PM
Major turn offs in no particular order -
#1 Poor hygenie
#2 Bad attitude
#3 Bad manners
#4 Lack of respect for themselves and others
#5 Arrogance
#6 Stupidity
#7 Laziness
#8 Lying
#9 Lack of self-control
#10 Not taking responsibility for their own behavior

5/10/2006 1:29:57 PM
Major turn ons in no particular order -
#1 Good grooming and hygenie
#2 Good attitude
#3 Good manners
#4 Respect for themselves and others
#5 Being self confident, neither arrogant nor selling   themselves short
#6 Intelligence, both street smarts and book smarts
#7 Being hardworking
#8 Being honest and forthright
#9 Self-control
#10 Taking responsibility for their own behavior

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