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Pan Female Dominant, 44,  San Luis Obispo, California
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Please note -

At present I am not looking.� The description below is for reference only.

I am a Female Dominant looking for male,�female, and transgender
submissives and switches.
I am Pagan, bi-sexual, polyamorous,
and a combination of Gothic and Tribal influences.� My passions include art, music, theatre, and literature.�� Personal tastes run to fantasy, science fiction, horror, and other forms of imagination and creativity.��

I treat my submissives and partners with courtesy, honesty, and respect and expect the same in return.� You are expected to be between the ages of 21 and 50, single,�be in good health, well groomed, have a good attitude and a willingness to try new experiences.� You should also be a good conversationalist,level-headed, even-tempered, and able to remain silent, patient, and attentive when the situation calls for it.� Must respect other players boundaries and confidentiality if attending a munch,
party or workshop.�

If you are a smoker, then outside smoking is required, light social drinking is fine on your own time,
not during a Scene.�Whether you are�
male or female or�transgender; a submissive or a switch; you are welcome to be�feminine,�androgynous, or

I also enjoy communicating with people
about shared mutual interests.� I have
met some wonderful�individuals here and�look forward to�making new friends.� The message boards are a
good place to learn new Kink information and�get to know�the other folks on this site.�











 Dominant Female

 San Luis Obispo 


 Under 5'






Actively Seeking:


 Lives For:


 Musical Theater

 You worshiping my body

 You worshiping my breasts

 Disciplining you with a cane


 You massaging me

 You being my domestic servant

 You kissing my feet

 Mental Bondage

 Role Playing

 Spanking you

 Theatrical Scenes


 Science Fiction

 Intellectual Discourse


 Female Sovereignty

 Alternative Music


 Industrial Music


 Rock Music


 Modern Paganism



 Art Galleries


 Coffee Shops


 Renaissance Faires



 You begging

 Tying you up

 Collaring you


 Electrical Play

 Hair Pulling



 You at the end of my leash

 Placing you in masks

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Treating you like an object

 Complete control of your orgasms

 Deciding what you wear

 Speech Restrictions

 You worshiping me in stockings

 Suspension Bondage

 Tickling you while you're bound

 Wax Play


 Historical Shows











 Liberal Politics

 Paranormal Phenomena




 The Occult


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Old Guard


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Folk Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Nineties Music


 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes




 Antique Shows

 Bar Hopping

 Bird Watching


 Fine Dining


 Going to the Opera






 Horseback Riding

 Martial Arts

 Scuba Diving







 Blindfolding you


 Giving you corner time facing the wall

 Feminizing you

 Eye contact with me is not permitted

 Disciplining your private parts

 Local BDSM Community


 Wearing masks

 Massage (Giving)

 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism

 Going to munches

 You worshiping me with recitations and rituals

 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Sensory Play


 Dominating you with a strap-on


 Arcade Games

 Board Games

 Card Games



 Comedy Shows

 Horror Movies



 Online Chatrooms

 Online RPGs

 Puzzle Games

 Role Playing Games


 Alternative Medicine


 Art Collecting



 Body Art

 Candle Making










 Political Activism




 Blue Grass

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music


 Hip Hop Music

 New Age Music

 New Wave


 Opera Music


 Punk Rock Music











 Body Building




 Horse Racing

 Kick Boxing







 G-spot Stimulation

 Rear End Play

 Romance Novels

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing

 Cross Stitch



 Working Out

 Country Music

 Pop Music


 Curious About:


 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Gas Masks



 Online Auctions

 Soap Making





 Victorian Lifestyle




 Housework Service

 Maid / Butler Service


 Conservative Politics

 Latter-day Saints


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Journal Entries:
6/25/2009 12:09:58 PM

From The Chicago Tribune, "Multi-love, it's complicated".  Thanks to Dom Ken for posting the article.,0,4413481.story

6/25/2009 12:08:54 PM

"Civilization" by Marco Brambilla

Amazing video on Vimeo

"Civilization is a video installation we created with artist/director Marco Brambilla for the elevators Standard Hotel in NYC. It's comprised of over 400 video clips and it takes elevator passengers on a trip from hell to heaven as they go up or from heaven to hell as they go down. Pictures of the installation and Q&A with Brambilla and Crush is posted here"

6/17/2009 5:58:50 PM

6/16/2009 8:54:35 PM
Quoted with permission from Orion, who heard this proverb originally from Master Chen,  
 "Fire determines right and wrong, if you are too close and it burns you, then you are wrong. If it warms you when you are cold, then you are right. If it blinds you, then you are wrong, if it guides you to contentment, then you are right."

5/14/2009 8:29:00 PM
A great quote from one of my favorite movies,
Shadow of the Vampire.

"F.W. Murnau: Our battle, our struggle, is to create art. Our weapon is the moving picture. Because we have the moving picture, our paintings will grow and recede; our poetry will be shadows that lengthen and conceal; our light will play across living faces that laugh and agonize; and our music will linger and finally overwhelm, because it will have a context as certain as the grave. We are scientists engaged in the creation of memory... but our memory will neither blur nor fade."

4/28/2009 12:38:32 PM
If you wish to send a "friend" request you need to be someone I know either in real life or from the Forums.  Complete strangers sending "friend" requests will be denied.

4/6/2009 11:29:03 AM
The Kinsey Institute has a wealth of information on human sexuality.  It makes for fascinating reading and research.

4/1/2009 5:19:47 PM
"Loose Woman"

They say I'm a beast.
And feast on it. When all along
I thought that's what a woman was.

They say I'm a bitch.
Or witch. I've claimed
the same and never winced.

They say I'm a macha, hell on wheels,
viva-la-vulva, fire and brimstone,
man-hating, devastating,
boogey-woman lesbian.
Not necessarily,
but I like the compliment.

The mob arrives with stones and sticks
to maim and lame and do me in.
All the same, when I open my mouth,
they wobble like gin.

Diamonds and pearls
tumble from my tongue.
Or toads and serpents.
Depending on the mood I'm in.

I like the itch I provoke.
The rustle of rumor
like crinoline.

I am the woman of myth and bullshit.
(True. I authored some of it.)
I built my house of ill repute.
Brick by brick. Labored,
loved and masoned it.

I live like so.
Heart as sail, ballast, rudder, bow.
Rowdy. Indulgent to excess.
My sin and success--
I think of me to gluttony.

By all accounts I am
a danger to society.
I'm Pancha Villa.

I break laws,
upset the natural order,
anguish the Pope and make fathers cry.
I am beyond the jaw of law.
I'm la desperada, most-wanted public enemy.
My happy picture grinning from the wall.

I strike terror among the men.
I can't be bothered what they think.
Que se vayan a la ching chang chong!
For this, the cross, the Calvary.
In other words, I'm anarchy.

I'm an aim-well,
loose woman.
Beware, honey.

I'm Bitch. Beast. Macha.
Ping! Ping! Ping!
I break things.

Sandra Cisneros, Loose Woman

5/10/2006 1:31:45 PM
Major turn offs in no particular order -
#1 Poor hygenie
#2 Bad attitude
#3 Bad manners
#4 Lack of respect for themselves and others
#5 Arrogance
#6 Stupidity
#7 Laziness
#8 Lying
#9 Lack of self-control
#10 Not taking responsibility for their own behavior

5/10/2006 1:29:57 PM
Major turn ons in no particular order -
#1 Good grooming and hygenie
#2 Good attitude
#3 Good manners
#4 Respect for themselves and others
#5 Being self confident, neither arrogant nor selling   themselves short
#6 Intelligence, both street smarts and book smarts
#7 Being hardworking
#8 Being honest and forthright
#9 Self-control
#10 Taking responsibility for their own behavior

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