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VelvetIronHand80

I've been in the D/s lifestyle since I was 19, when a great couple from Las Vegas were staying for the summer in My little town in South Dakota, and took Me under their wings.

I learned a lot about how deeply a bond of trust can develop in a D/s relationship that I've seen sadly lacking in many of the vanilla relationships I have tried.

I am a Daddy Dom, believing in teaching, guiding, protecting, caring for, and helping My subs/slaves understand their own worth.

I know there are many different takes on D/s, and I believe each should be free to live and experience it as they believe to be right. There are those who feel women/slaves/subs have no worth whatsoever, are simply property and toys. To them, that is right, so it is how they should do it.

I have use for toys, and no problem amusing Myself with a cumslut. But for something deeper than use for pleasure, I want a sub/slave who can stimulate Me in more ways than physical titillation. I believe the Master and His girl should compliment each others' strengths and support each others' weaknesses.

I am seeking friendship, comaradarie, playmates, and a possible relationship, but I am in no rush.

My interests are myriad and varied, not limited to the world of D/s -BDSM. I am fine with both simple devotion and complex personalities. Complex does not mean high maintenance crazy bitches, however. Everyone has their story, whether it is interesting or not, and whether our tales will intertwine is yet to be seen.

I judge people on who they are, not on sexual, religious, or political preference.

I am strict but usually fair. I will listen to a sub's thoughts, worries, concerns, or disagreements, but in the end, the decisions are Mine.

You don't have to be everything I'm looking for to be My friend. I am open and interested in making like minded friends.

I very rarely raise My voice in anger, and I will not strike a girl in anger. If punishment is needed, it will be delivered when heads are cool, at least when Mine is. There is a difference between rough sex, consensual beatings, etc.. and abuse. If a person cannot Master their own emotions and temper, they have no place dominating someone else.

I also don't reward misbehavior. If I know you like being flogged, choked, spanked, cut, humiliated, etc, I will not do those things to you when you displease Me. It's not completely black and white, of course, nearly nothing is. Playfully misbehaving a little to get disciplined is different than truly doing wrong, and is treated differently.

I have a deep affection for American Pit Bull Terriers, and was invited to work at Villalobos Rescue Center in New Orleans, but it didn't pan out.

I'm going to school for network and system administration and network security, in order to finance the lifestyle I enjoy and to be able to rescue more bullys in the future.

I am interested in aberrant psychology, sociology, the paranormal..I suppose I'm an open minded skeptic. I think Les Miserables 10th Anniversary Live from Royal Albert Hall is about the best thing ever created by man.

I am disease free and have no children, but I have been in relationships with girls who had children before, and I understand that if you have a child, or children, it is a package deal. If we get along, I will never ask you to put Me before your children. I also have a warped sense of humor, and find completely undamaged people to be highly boring. Though I believe there are very few completely undamaged people in this day and age.

I think that's enough for now, it will give you a base idea of who I am. If you'd like to know more, platonic, physically, or more deeply, feel free to contact Me. I will bite, but it will be enjoyable.
kitten88
 
 Age: 22
 Terre Haute, Indiana