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VeganDomina

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************************ I am Vegan Domina ************************ Welcome to My profile. Please read carefully and fully if you want to have a basic understanding of who I am. I put some time on it expecting it will weed out the biggest part of unwilling contacts. Life is too short, and this world is jammed with selfish bottom fakes wasting Dominant´s time, so I know for a fact I will lose some time, but such is life, I get to be stuck in traffic as well. Nevertheless, I will go on trying to make a clear profile, and refining My rubbish sensors. Being a Dominant is natural for Me. It is always 24/7. Even when it doesn't show in the real world. In spite of the fact that human males are the main responsible for the disappearance of thousands of species, for climate change, for the torturing and slaughtering of billions of non-human animals to indulge on their inferior needs, just to name a few, in spite of all of that, I still like some men. Genuine submissive men are the best men ever. Which is why I like them. And why I am not very sadistic. However, like all really special things in this world, true submissives are extremely rare, which is why I am here... I am always polite and kind with real submissives, and happy to reward and be generous with the worthy. Starting the reward with providing My attention and sharing My precious time. Here is the definition of submissive that I subscribe: individual with an intense desire to serve deriving personal gratification by pleasing others. As a reference, one of the submissive´s mantras: "Submission is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less". I require any submissive to be outstanding, or else I have no pleasure in dominance. So here are my minimum requirements, prioritized: - Like any decent human being, a submissive must be honest. To make it crystal clear for the intellectually less privileged: no lies whatsoever. If I ever catch you on a lie, you are a goner. As WickedMaggie says it so well "BDSM´s relationships require what every other relationship does: chemistry and commitment are important but trust is paramount when engaging in subcultural activities considered deviant by society". - Must have an overwhelming need to please. Not just some submissive inclinations, but a real desire to please. This cannot be stressed enough. I'm not an easy person, and the ones that want my company must be patient. I'm prone to feel others are redundant if they pout or something like that. - Single. I do not share. Again, to make it the clearest possible: not married, not engaged, not dating. - Respectful. It should go without saying, but unfortunately My experience shows I must state it. - Loyal. - Appreciative and diligent. I hate micromanagement. And babysitting. - Economically stable and independent. Apparently I need to make this one more clear too: you have your own money, for your needs, not Mine. And it's not money from the welfare system/social security. - Healthy. - Have a decent use of English or Portuguese. - Have a computer with camera, for Me to view you as soon as I want to. And with a mic. Yes, there have been sub wannabes saying they didn't know a mic was required. I can't help but smile with stuff like this. I think they're just trying to be funny. - Have a Skype account.
I prefer subs that have alpha male lives in the public eye. Fun and with a good sense of humour like me. Fit and physically strong. My needs are many and complex and they are not limited to sexual domination. This means I get utterly bored with wannabe subs that don´t bother to read My profile (lazy), don´t seem to have a life outside this (pathetic), and that want to play from the first nanosecond (too self-serving). I need to know if you interest Me as a person. Having you cuffed kneeling and bending before Me 24/7 sounds boring. No interest whatsoever in casual BDSM, for Me BDSM is a state of mind. No interest whatsoever in switch men, or in men that want "to explore their potential dominant side". No interest whatsoever in training a submissive man; a submissive man must already know female dominance is the desired lifestyle for him, and must have come to terms with that. ANY subs that do not meet all My minimums should expect at best friendship. ANY subs that don´t seem willing/capable of making Me happy will no longer have My priceless attention. Anybody who is not respectful will immediately be blocked from all types of communication, and reported. Anybody sending Me unrequested pictures will be reported. If by now you are still interested, write Me a careful message, stating what specifically about My profile prompted you to contact Me. Start with "Dear Goddess". This exact greeting. And don't send me a message listing all your interests, at that moment I don't really care. This is the way I will know that at least you bothered to read My profile, so maybe you are not a lazy self-absorbed bottom. Share your Skype so I can contact if I'd like to. If you don't have a Skype account, create one. Don't suggest me to adapt to you. I don´t mind if you are not local, but we must be able to meet soon enough, or else I lose interest. If you are ever in this pretty country, say hi and invite Me for a coffee, I might accept. Take care, VD
1/7/2017 7:05:23 AM
It's interesting to notice how many men that profile themselves as inexperienced submissives also say they are willing to relocate. Hm. If they start by assuming they are not fully aware of what being a submissive really is, how can they say they'd be willing to such a big change?? Move out of their comfort zone, away from friends, relatives, colleagues, their whole social network, to start a life they don't understand fully?? Or maybe they think "relocatable" could mean relocate down their street?!? More and more I feel many, if not most, so called submissive men here are here just because of the thrill of interacting safely - distantly - with a dominant woman. They get turned on by feeling they have the attention of a dominant, and they just want to cum while thinking that. Or they would like to have a dominant serve their pseudo-submissive kinks. :D That alone it's so stupid that it's funny.
12/28/2016 9:01:27 AM

Just for educational/humorous/informative purposes I've decided I'll be posting examples of fakes here, without exactly calling them out though, but just posting their outrageous lines. 
This creature (he/she/they?) lists it is from one country (norway), but now it just told me it is from another (denmark), which is something I could easily dismiss, because I accept out of safety some insecure ones list a different country here. I am really building up a sense that nordic people are dishonest, I hope the exceptions to this rule of mine can forgive my prejudice, since it is based on extensive experience... But back to the fake. It just told me it doesn't have video, when I said I needed to see who I was interacting with. What a surprise. And here are the lousy messages sent, on two different dates, same exact test, down to the typos. :D Enjoy. And learn about human nature.


FAKE SUBMISSIVE on 11/23/16 at 2:20 PM:

Dear Vegan Domina

 

 I hope it's okay that I say that I extraordinarily well like your sharp, direct and powerful profile. I think honesty is the most important thing between people. And I feel also that your way to peel everything neat, polite and sweet communication attracts me enormously. This is where the mental domination start and end. Power, submission and humiliation psychlogicly is very important to me. I also liked that you are one of the few who is not trying to look like a dominatrix from a magazine, but has individual strengths and personality. I'm like you intelligent and well-educated, employed as a professor of literature. And I hope to talk more with you and hope I don't sound too stupid in this message. 

 

yours k--

FAKE SUBMISSIVE on 12/28/16 at 3:27 PM:

Dear Ma'am 


 I hope it's okay that I say that I extraordinarily well like your sharp, direct and powerful profile. I think honesty is the most important thing between people. And I feel also that your way to peel everything neat, polite and sweet communication attracts me enormously. This is where the mental domination start and end. Power, submission and humiliation psychlogicly is very important to me. I also liked that you are one of the few who is not trying to look like a dominatrix from a magazine, but has individual strengths and personality. I'm like you intelligent and well-educated, employed as a professor of literature. And I hope to talk more with you and hope I don't sound too stupid in this message. 



 yours k--


12/3/2016 11:57:00 AM
Just bumped into a profile of something that identifies as a submissive, but chose a nick with an arrogant prefix :D , and says it expects a dominant woman to relocate to his country :D :D :D There is more: for a month! :D :D :D And more: the country? warm inviting sweden :D :D :D :D :D I've seen very funny things on this site, but this one takes the cake so far! I actually tried to thank it for such a funny profile, but alas, it was gone to enjoy that friendly and affordable country. Not. I know some reading this are thinking it's 18 or so. Nope, it identifies as a mature submissive man. :D :D :D 

I have been to Sweden. It's horrible there. Nature can be great ... in summer, maybe 3 out of 12 months.
http://goscandinavia.about.com/od/swede1/qt/10-Things-I-Hate-About-Sweden.htm

I would appreciate if anybody assist me in putting the crying with laughter smiley here. :D That was really great.
Selendria
 
 Age: 49
  Kansas