Handsome (granted this is subjective, but have been told I am pleasing to the eye), 45, clean cut, 6’, intelligent, in shape professional dominant married man. Not looking to change the status quo… yet. Full head of hair, clean shaven face, well groomed, with swimmers body.

Extroverted, flirtatious, with a direct and overt personality.

Spontaneous witty humor.

Pleasant to be with, respectful of boundaries, extraordinary kisser and an exceptional lover.

My dominance is not one of degradation of the other person either verbally or physically.

It is focused on control and relies on my partner offering up her submission to satisfy and please me. Punishment is directed more along the lines of proof of commitment to the submission while rewards are of shared pleasures. Although I am adaptive and creative to my sub in order to create a mutually fulfilling scenario between us.

In order for this mutual arrangement to be established, there must be compatibility and trust developed between us and am willing to invest to make it all it can be.

I have flexible daytime work week flexibility with occasional evenings and weekend days.