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	I am not the best at filling these things out. I am one who is a true DOM at heart. I fully understand the role of a good Dom, what one must do, how he must protect is sub or slave, how he must be there not only to correct the sub when wrong, but to offer rewards and praise for good work. Due to my professional line of work I have chosen not to post a picture, but after some discussion with me, you may ask for a picture. Trust, one of the most over used words on this lifestyle and the least understood. Many have been hurt because they TRUSTED the other. Beautiful D/s relationships were torn apart because trust was assumed and not proven and earned. Just something to think about. Right now I am looking for in person and on-line. In person would be a part time, probably not 24/7 YET.

3/2/2014 8:14:33 PM

So it seems the life of a hardworking DOM is not acceptable to many subs. Guess since I am not available during the day makes me one who is less desirable. Since I am kinder and gentler, others do not like that. Since I take my time in getting to know a sub in the courting process, then I am not aggressive enough. Since I am one who truly understands and believes and studies this lifestyle, I am too intellectual. So my thought is, their loss. I will keep looking and one day that right submissive lady will show.