Collarspace.com

This is the space where I write nice things about myself to get you to do one of two things: 1) write me, or 2) convince you to not delete my message to you. I get to do this while not putting up a picture of myself (which I'm not going to do, pics can be traded once a relationship is formed) and also realizing that it seems every person on this site appears to be hunting for a submissive female. All in all this seems like an uphill task. C'est la vie. The simplest way I think about the D/s dynamic is through a simple phrase: "True freedom is serving the Master you choose." A simple reading of this phrase will make you think that it pertains sole to the submissive or slave. After all, the sub is choosing her master and if she chooses wisely then she will be able to truly live her life to the fullest. What many do not realize though is that the quote cuts both ways, a true dominant must understand who he serves as well, or else he will find himself in bondage. My guess is that you have run across this deluded faux master before. Sites like this are full of them. Dominants who are only ruled by their lusts and kinks to the point that the poor fools are enslaved by them. These dominants can never truly form a relationship to their submissive and never value the gift given in the power exchange. So what do I seek? A submissive or slave willing to find that freedom and give herself to me. What do I offer? The mindfulness and commitment that, if I accept your gift, my job will be to mold you and shape you into something that brings fulfillment to your life. If that is the type of dominant you are looking for message.
HeatherSpkU
 
 Age: 25
 Morrison, Illinois