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Its been a while since Ive posted one of these so Ill start off with what Im searching for and Ill build a little TLDR list summary at the bottom to review afterwards including a hard no list so you can just save some time and check that and be on your way if a deal breaker is detected, as there are likely to be some bantsrants in the way.
To start Im looking for someone very interested in a DDLBG relationship setup that shares the desire to turn it into a reality, that means starting out getting to know one another online and then meeting in person to continue the adventure. Im also looking for someone that is a bit of a nerd, expect some conversations on how ST Beyond is a hot mess and how Disney is killing Star Wars for dat sweet cash, (seriously Last Jedi is the largest cinematic narrative disaster since Highlander 2). Other shared interests that I feel are important for matching successfully are being able to enjoy each others company through shared experiences, for example cuddling and ratting on the old badfunny movies, video and board games, and of course building pillow forts and bed nests while just having a lazy day and listening to music.
For age you must be 21 or older, as that is the minimum age required for most of my preferred entertainments, there is no set limit as Im fine with being the chronologically younger partner if we connect and hit it off.
Im also looking for someone local to the Houston area, and as this is a rather HUEGE area, if you have a car that is going to help out a lot as we can hopefully meet in the middle and work from there. Ideally wed meet up for chats a few times and maybe Ill show you around to some of my favorite haunts around town. Im a pretty tactile person so I need to be around people one on one to get to know them, communication is the most important part of a relationship especially one based in kinks and Ive had far too many people say all the right things to provide the illusion that things were working out when they werent and if I can see the tone and the other non-verbals of body language then we can see if the communication is honest and there or if were just wasting each others time.
Speaking of kinks, its going to help a lot if you are a pretty big deviant, as I for sure am. Id really like to see if you are willing to try out a bit of masochism and possibly exhibitionism as we may have to straighten out some bratty behavior by ducking into a car, service hallway, stairwell or roof access for a bit on hands on attitude adjustments, or to provide you some release when the sensory overload becomes unbearable from going about on date night plugged and vibed a bit yeah that sort of madness. Id prefer if you are pretty open about your kinks and experiences and desires to experience new things. Ive been kinking about for a decade and there are still a few that Id like to try out, so if you have an exploring spirit for your deviousness and can chat about them that would be awesome. Shyness and coyness is cute to a point, then it just gets annoying when I have to launch an inquisition to determine your level of actual vs expressed interest for every little thing.
So who am I? Im a 32 year old white bisexual male apex pervert that is 6 feet tall with blond hair, blue eyes, glasses, short beard and mass cultivating dad bod. I dont have much of a preference for ethnicity or body type much but a bit soft is preferred. Im mostly terribly fond for my shorties and short haircuts (pixie cuts are a huge weakness) and for the little princes being a bit smol is super cute.
And what do I offer? Im really interested into the caring and guiding aspects and would love to help and encourage you in both your journey in life and in exploring the nature of the self. However there will be some rules over time and those rules will be based around both helping you grow in life such as doing your college assignments on time, going to work on time, helping get your life in order etc, as well as the more kinkier ones and they will have punishments when you purposefully disregard them. Im a pretty chill and open person and rather honest to the point where sometimes to those that arent too familiar with me it comes off as assholeish, but Im going to say what I mean and be honest about it, and Id expect the same level of honesty and directness from you.
To some of you this may seem like a lot, its really not if you are serious about engaging in a real relationship with someone. If you cant be bothered to put in as much effort into being a friend and partner first and actually being there for each other then how can you expect to have a relationship with the extra communications required for kinks for the long term? Hopefully one day I can find a bestest friend to cuddle and care for and we can be that annoying couple that is too cute for their own good and all over one another when most arent looking, hopefully this is everything you are looking for and it is in fact you.
--TlDR--
You must be at least 21
You must be around the Houston, TX area.
You must be a somewhat functioning individual (job, car, etc).
Kinks Im pretty interested in and have a history of
Restraint bondage.
Sissification (if male).
Domestic Servitude.
Exhibition.
Kinks Im wanting to try
RiggingRopesShibari
Predicament Bondage
Kinks Im 100 not interested in (The Nos)
BreathplayChoking.
Blood, Waste, Bathroom stuff (this includes DiapersABDL)
CNC
Thanks for reading, and good luck in your endeavors.
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