This is the closest I've come to describing what I seek that I've written so far:

First, picture the most loving, passionate, romantic vanilla relationship you can, then add a sprinkling of kink and you've got the foundation of what I desire in a relationship. I like *a lot* of flirting, dirty talk and teasing. I'm a switch both in and out of the bedroom and my main kinks aren't something most would expect to see in one combination (more on that later. . .if I like you). I want someone strong and supportive who treats me like a princess and can keep up with my desire for a lot of attention.

Outside of the bedroom my ideal man isn't shy to talk about his feelings, whether they be good or bad. He doesn't mind me being a bit possessive (not jealous! they're not the same thing). I want him to utterly adore me and be comfortable with me adoring him back. And finally, he's someone I can continually grow and evolve with.