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VanillaPlus

I'm outwardly normal, and ideally I'd like to find a submissive woman who is the same. I am interested if you are reasonably intelligent, honest, and candid - there are bonus points if you are particularly original and interesting.

I've got a solid job and I live in a small town.  I don't have a face-shot on my profile because it would be awkward (and potentially problematic) to be recognized around town - a prospect that is more likely here than in a big city.

If you're interested, we can exchange a few messages and I'll send a picture.
7/26/2010 7:33:56 PM
I think the most interesting aspect of normal couple dynamics is the degree of trust that naturally develops, bolstered by the tacit threat of social consequences.  Even the most outwardly conservative couples often have elaborate fantasies that they are rarely open about - or, if they are open, then only with the socially proscribed degree of mortification at their own compulsions.  What is interesting is that people are capable of forming strong bonds prior to learning their partner's secrets; i.e. attachment and intimacy (in the common sense) are the result of perception, but they are often mistaken as synonymous with proximity and mutually assured social retribution.

The standard "Game" is to present a socially acceptable face, and to maintain it long enough to achieve a particular end result.  For the most part, people want to lie about themselves and are willing to accept the lies of others according to a "turnabout is fair game" mentality.
sizzlingjean
 
 Age: 33
 South Flordia, Florida