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I am a mature,vital,attractive, and intelligent dominant gentleman,returng to the quest after an extended "sabbatical", hoping to make the kind of connection that has so far eluded me in my years of involvement in BDSM. My tastes, both within and without kink, are catholic (in the secular sense,of course),my energy and stamina are youthful, and the perversity of my imagination is well-known amongst certain groups of the kind of people your mother undoubtedly warned you against associating with.
Having spent a number of years as an all-purpose top and play-party animal, I have had ample time to grow tired of play for its own sake.I am looking for a partner with whom I can discover the more subtle but, in my mind,significantly greater rewards of D/s. This in no way indicates a loss of interest,on my part,in the physical aspects of chastisement and correction of wayward behaviour; only a firm desire to give it its place within a larger framework.
A perusal of my profile gives a fairly accurate sense of what I'm about, but there are a few other things any interested parties should know.I prefer women in their mid-thirties to late forties, in good physical and mental shape, as am I,with height and weight in trim and healthy proportion. Except when work dictates otherwise,I dress well,in an informal kind of way, and I would not be at my ease with someone who was unwilling to make the effort to do the same. I prefer honest experience to ersatz sophistication, wisdom to learning, and real warmth to almost anything else.
There are one or two other important considerations that it is neccesary for the aforementioned potentially interested parties to be aware of. I work fifty to sixty hours a week, for a good part of the year; this obviously impacts on the possibility of certain forms of relationship. Equally meaningfull is my inability to relocate at this time.The importance of all other factors is relative, and potentally negotiable.
I am in no particular hurry to establish a rapport with someone, but I do take this seriously. Time taken to build trust,understanding and a sense of real connection is never time wasted. With caveats in place, any interested may contact.
Van
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"There are truths which one can only say after having won the right to say them"
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" It is easier to rob by setting up a bank than by holding up a bank clerk."
Bertold Brecht |
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" Perhaps I am doomed to retrace my steps under the illusion I am exploring, doomed to try and learn what I should simply recognize,learning a mere fraction of what I have forgotten"
Ander Breton |
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" I want to do to you what spring does with the cherry blossoms."
Pablo Neruda |
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"Don't let yesterday take up too much of tomorrow."
Will Rogers |
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"Life isn't about finding yourself; life is about creating yourself."
George Bernard Shaw |
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"Always forgive your enemies-nothing else annoys them so much."
Oscar Wilde |
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"A thing is not necessarily true because a man dies for it."
Oscar Wilde |
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"Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative."
Oscar Wilde |
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"Language is a cracked kettle on which we beat out tunes for bears to dance to, while all the time we long to move the stars to pity."
Gustave Flaubert |
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"We don't see things as they are,we see them as we are."
Anais Nin |
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"I am not young enough to know everything"
Oscar Wilde |
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" I represent to you all the sins you have never had the courage to commit"
Oscar Wilde |
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"Life is too short; the time we waste in yawning can never be regained" Stendahl
"The fact that a believer is happier than a skeptic is no more to the point than the fact that a drunken man is happier than a sober one"
George Bernard Shaw
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"Living never wore one out so much as the effort not to live"
Anais Nin |
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"A person who doubts himself is like a man who would enlist in the ranks of his enemies and bear arms against himself.He makes his failure certain by himself being the first person to be convinced of it."
Alexandre Dumas
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"We all have enough strength to endure the misfortunes of others."
Francois de la Rochefoucauld |
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"Work like you don't need the money. Love like you never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching."
Satchel Paige |
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"I hope you have not been leading a double life,pretending to be wicked and being good all the time. That would be hypocrisy."
Oscar Wilde |
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"If you're not in over your head, how do you know how tall you are"?"
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"It ain't what they call you, it's what you answer to."
W.C.Fields |
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"Love well,whip well."
Benjamin Franklin |
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"We get so much in the habit of wearing disguises before others that we finally appear disguised before ourselves"
Francois de La Rochefoucauld |
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" The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion
that it has taken place."
George Bernard Shaw |
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" If you want to know what God thinks of money, just look at the people He gave it to"
Dorothy Parker |
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" Be yourself; everyone else is taken."
Oscar Wilde |
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"Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation? I tell you that there are terrible temptations which it requires strength, real strength, to yield to."
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"Life is one fool thing after another, whereas love is two fool things after each other."
Oscar Wilde
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"The extreme delight we take in talking of ourselves should warn us that it is not necessarily shared by those who listen."
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