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Hetero Male Dominant, 33,  Oklahoma
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Hello all. My name, as most of you can pretty clearly see, is Vandros--well thats not my actual given name, but its a very useful nickname that friends have called me for years so I answer to it readily. With the introductions of of the way, how did I get here? I clicked on the website, of course. But how did I get to be a Dom? Thats a better question.

Its my theory that Doms and subs tend to mostly have an innate need to fulfill their role. It seems like around puberty, or shortly before it, both begin to realize theres something in them that demands they do it. For me, I started noting around age 8, 9ish that the idea of doing things to girls to punish them sounded really interesting. (Of course I was 8, a horrible punishment was like, clip on earrings being put on someones boobs). I also thought there was something wrong with me because no one else seemed to have that type of fantasy at all.

So why didnt you just realize you were a Dom? Thank you invisible person setting me up with questions, thats perfect. By the time I was a teenager, I was vaguely aware of what a Dominatrix was, thanks to TV, but I thought that was it, that you had to be a woman, and it only involved hurting someone. Neither of which I am or enjoy doing. It wasnt until a few years ago that I discovered that being a Dom meant lots of different things, but that hurting others wasnt -required-. And so here I am )

If youve read this far, good for you! Smart submissives are a huge turn on for me. I love to tease, I love to play power exchange games, and Im very affectionate to my submissives, in person or online, but stupid girls are boring, Im sorry. It may be overly picky, but if your idea of an email response is lol. to something I spent 7-10 mins writing, please move along to a Dom that is more inclined toward bimbos.

So who am I looking for? Long term of course, Id like to have a gorgeous young submissive to marry and keep forever! (Well not forever, but like 70 years or so). If you want online training, fine with me, if you are remotely in my area and want to get to know me, fantastic. If you simply are new and have questions, are scared, or want to learn more, Im a teacher in my day job and I would love to help you, even if thats where the relationship ends. So say hello, and we can talk more about what I like and what you like.











 Dominant Male


 5' 9"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Friends Only

Online Romance

 Lives For:




 Housework Service

 Obedience Training

 Orgasm Denial




 1950s Lifestyle

 Nineties Music




 Renaissance Faires




 Martial Arts






 Corner Time




 Hair Pulling


 Maid/Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation



 Country Music

 Pop Music


 Body Building





 Horseback Riding

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Card Games

 Curious About:




 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service


 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Hard Limits:

 Knife Play


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