Why should I feel sympathy for someone when they won't even tell me what's going on?
Why should I still consider you to join us when you won't actually get to know us?
Why should I keep you as a friend on here or any other site when you want to act like a whiny baby about shit and not follow my rules?
Let's clarify something right now, no I don't show a whole lot of sympathy for people. Why should I, when 90% of them bring this shit on themselves? Not to mention, where was my sympathy when things were happening to me? It was no where, because I never got anything. I did my little pity party then I picked up the pieces of my life and moved on. I didn't just dwell on things. Why should I? What use will that do for me? NOTHING!
But, I can't be understanding about anything when you want to act like a little whiny bitch and not tell me. What's to be understanding about if I don't know the details?
But, you also still want me to consider you to be in our relationship, even though I still don't know you all that well. Yeah, I don't think so. That's not how it works around here. Some other people may be willing to do that but we aren't. My husband and I both want to get to know you on a personal level. Basically a friend level before anything will happen, excuse us for trying to be careful of who we let into our life. This is a very big deal to us and only want people we feel that we can trust and be comfortable with into our life. This isn't some minor decision or a WHAM BAM THANK YOU MA'AM type deal. This is long term, no turning back relationship. Once you're in, you are in, end of story. If that's something that you can't understand or don't care about them don't message me or show interest because that's just going to piss me off.
If all you want to do is find ways to piss me off or bitch about the type of person I am, then um, why would I still continue to talk to you? That's like giving a kid a puppy then telling him he can't have it. Pointless! I have rules that you have to follow in order for you to prove to me that you are ready and willing to join us. Can't follow the rules then it was just pointless to start a conversation.
How hard is any of this to understand for some of you people? I have no problem with making new friends. You can never really have too many friends but don't think you are going message me with some bullshit conversation starter. If you want to chat as friends, then be sure to state that in the first message. If you think that you may want to join us then be sure to state that as well. If you don't like me, my husband, or what we are looking for them don't message me at all. What would be the point of it? Because you were bored and wanted to aggravate people?
DON'T BE SUCH AN IDIOT!
Act like you have some common sense but do be sure to show it.
