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UPDATE: I have removed my pictures in case I have to go to court with the child of my mother. After reading a few horror stories about profiles from sites like these being used against parents I do not wish to risk my daughters relationship with me. I DO HAVE PICTURES. I can send them apon request as well a give places to those that wish to click a link and see. I have lived in this lifestyle since I was 18 and am always growing not just as a dom but as person as well as what my likes dislikes and things i'd like to try. As the years have gone by I have found some of the older mind sets about a Man or a woman's roles have taken deeper routes. I often think I was simply born in the wrong era but at last I can not change society to be as I see fit. I however can surround myself with like minded people and tend to do just that. I have certain believes about where a women should be in relation to myself and even if others do not agree with these beliefs they are my own and frankly I went to war for the purist of happiness not just for those that fit in the neat little box that society today deems fit. That brings me to my next point. I served four and a half years in the military but no longer am in. It has left me with a bit of ruggedness to me that most find either attractive or offensive. My life is busy and I do not have time for others to waste let alone myself. So I tend to speak my mind and if it offends you well truth is I probably don't care and will tell you to be an adult and get over it. I have a daughter whom I love deeply even though I am unable to see her near as much as I like. I have goals both vanilla and d/s wise. I am currently Poly and my ultimate goal is to have something similar to sister wives. That is to say to me Poly must be a FAMILY dynamic for it to work properly. If not everyone can find ways to not merely get along but feel deep heart felt connections then truth is you are wasting your time. As stated above I don't like wasting my time so that being said If I am to bring anyone into my life they must be able to connect with any I may have in my life. I do not desire to have more then I can provide for as a man. That being said I am only one man the idea that some one can take care of all the needs of 5 or even 6 women is ludicrous to me. I am a open book so feel free to ask away. I am always willing to make new friends even if that is all they are.
6/3/2013 10:24:08 AM

You can not control another if you can not control you self. You can not take care of another if you have not yet taken care of your self. JUST SAYIN!

5/27/2012 3:13:11 PM

I am constantly asked what im looking for that is a topic that could go on for days the short and simple of it its lasting connections. Ive been through the ringer time and time again ive found connections and lost connections a few have remain and those are the ones i cherish most i have been in many dynamics with various people and have been able to find something i loved about most of them if you think you have something to offer then offer it if not don't. It is what it is and it will either be or wont be. I often flourish in tpe and daddy dom situations however that does not mean i wouldn't or dont do well with others. I simply refuse to limit my horizons by saying i fit into one category or another and dont excel in any others. That would simply be unture. I wish you all the best in your searches.

12/31/2009 11:03:58 AM
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?... Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do.... It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” ~Marianne Williamson~
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 Age: 25
 Fort Lauderdale, Florida