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I am finding that BDSM is becoming more and more main stream. You see it every where now days. Whether that is a good thing remains to be seen. I would like BDSM to be accepted - but I don't want every Tom, Dick, and Harry involved. I have found that ever since it has been come slightly more accepted, there are so many people out there that just want a quick, kinky thrill and don't want to actually be involved. I suppose that is all well and good, but a lot of people can get hurt that way, both physically and mentally by people who a.) Don't know what they are doing and b.) Have no desire to keep the connection once their curiosity has been fullfilled. One has to be very careful and guarded now so as to not get hurt. I thank God that I don't have to worry about that anymore.
Speaking of relationships - Next month EB comes up for a visit. It will be the first time TG (my dominant and husband) and I have met her. She seems really sweet and it will be the first time since we have been back in Canada that we have met someone else in the lifestyle.
A lot of people cannot understand how I can be okay with having another woman in our house with whom we will have intimate contact. The way I see it is this:
There are many things that I am not able or willing to do for TG and, rather that have him resent me for not being able to fullfill those needs, I 'let' him pursue other avenues. We have an agreement, however, that he will not do this behind my back and I have to at least like the woman he is pursuing. If it makes everyone happy, then what is the harm?
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