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Im often left wondering if Im actually submissive or not, and Ive certainly baffled a few would be suitors. I have a strong desire to submit, and genuinely feel a sort of inner peace when serving however, I find myself unable to submit to many potential Dominants.
I know that I want a Ds dynamic in any future relationship that I have, and I have no desire to be the Dominant in that relationship, but I simply cant submit unless someone proves that they can handle me.
Im confident, independent, and in charge of every other aspect of my life. I know what I want, and I do what needs to be done to achieve my goals. I have a strong personality and require someone that can match that.
When I challenge someone, Im looking for them to check me. I want them to take control, and to show me that Ive met my match. I want them to prove that I can drop that in-charge part of me so that I feel safe to be vulnerable with them. Many seem to balk at this.
I guess Im trying to say that my submission is not easily earned, so any that message me seeking a relationship or play dynamic need to be aware of this. Im worth the effort. You should be too.
Some notable favourite activities of mine include bondage (shibari and other), ball gags, impact play, kitten play, affectionate cruelty, punishment dynamics, orgasm control, tease and denial, and wax play.
There are some things that Im simply uninterested in and will not do. These HARD limits include watersports, ass to mouth, rimming, incest fetishes, age play, blood, knives, needles, CNC. I am also not into calling someone Daddy. Im open to trying most things once, but those are just not my jam.
I require all limits to be respected. If youre of the opinion that as a submissive I dont get to have boundaries or limits, we will not be compatible.
I am looking for a long term and monogamous Ds relationship. I dont tend to be into casual play. I am not interested in dating those that are poly or ENM. I have nothing against it, but it doesnt work for me. Im also looking for someone close to my age range.
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