I am a fairly normal 32 year old white male. I'm just as much of a geek now as I was in high school. I still play Dungeons & Dragons with my friends when we can find the time. I love reading about and doing science.
I've been having kink-related relationships for about the last ten years, but I've only been into the social scene on a limited basis. I'd really like to try to get over this social phobia and get to know the locals.
Ideally, and in the long term, I'd like to find an intelligent woman for a long term female-led relationship. To outsiders we'd look pretty normal but where it counts, she'd be making the decisions. In the short term, I'd be open to a play-only relationship if that's all you're after.
Although I identify as a submissive, I have been a top during play and I do have fun tying people up and hurting them, but I view it through a kind of submissive lens; as giving pleasure to my partner. I've only been involved in straight, monogamous relationships but I'd be open to other situations as they arise.
I'm aware the list of fetishes and stuff below this profile is probably completely boring, but I hope I bring something more interesting than a dry list of my wants to the relationship. I think a lot of the stuff on that list is great and fun and everything, but I honestly get the biggest rush from pleasing my dominant. I always strive to keep the needs and desires of the woman I'm with at the forefront of my mind. Sometimes it's hard to do, and I can fail at it, but I always welcome honest criticism and correction for my mistakes.
Physically, I have to admit I'm a bit out of shape but I'm not obese. I'm probably pretty average looking for a brown haired, brown eyed white male.
Important note: I promise you I will never send you an unsolicited picture of my penis. I know that kind of thing happens a lot on sites like this and it bewilders and confuses me.
3/27/2011 5:27:45 PM
I'm moving to Oklahoma City in the very near future.
