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Let me guess Youre smart. This aint your first rodeo. And youre not about to fall for the preposterous claims made by so many of the profiles on this site. So heres a refreshing perspective the truth. I have no debt. I wear socks that match. Im an honest man, with a decent career and strong values. So while I could regale you with stories of my trips to Paris or how I resemble Billy Bob Thornton I know that good communications a foundation for every relationship. So if were on the same wavelength, read on What Im Doing With My Life Im not an average person and therefore do not work a normal Monday thru Friday. I do not work because my employment is a passion of mine. The intensity is very high but extremely rewarding. So my average work involves leading teams, training and saving lives. I could tell you more, but Im sure youd much rather see the 367-slide PowerPoint Ive prepared with all the juicy details. Outside of work I keep plenty busy, with travel, exploring and recently began personal quests. I know enough foreign languages to order a beer on almost every continent. Cheers, VP

2/27/2016 11:08:21 AM After several conversations and the experiences many have had with fake Doms I thought I would add this so you have a better idea of my thoughts and philosophy of our lifestyle. First, a true Dom will be respectful at all times. He won't be barking out orders, be rude or disrespectful. Even if he doesn't like something. He will respect everyones right to their likes or dislikes. Secondly, BDSM is more powerful than vanilla relationships. As such it should be respected. It is more honest, trusting and bonding. When someone submits to me it is very special and cherished. The title Sir is a gift from the sub when they are ready to give it. It should not have to be demanded. The sub empowers me with her submission. In turn, it is my responsibility for her safety, concerns and strengthen her and lift her to be the best person she can be. Ladies. You are all strong and powerful. Sub does not mean weak. Anyone who shows you disrespect is a fake and just ignore them. Anyone who needs an ear, I'm here to listen. Anyone who needs help, I'm here for advice or assistance within the bounds of what can be done safely. Anyway, those are my thoughts. Be safe and take care. Cheers, Pathfinder