I suppose I've always been dominant, but have only really begun to understand over the last 12 years or so. During that time I've had several D/s relationships, both online and in real. To many in this lifestyle, my tastes will seem quite vanilla. I'm not really into pain and bondage (although I do enjoy otk spanking). Rather, I enjoy control, both in a sexual and a more general context. While I like to care for and nurture my woman, I do seek one who will put my desires first.