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Mature professional eager to submit totally to a strict but caring Domme. Age is not critical, but would prefer younger ... a dominant woman who has it together and can get any man she wants if she chooses.Prefer a long term ongoing arrangement. Will welcome my Domme to move in and take control of my life where there is strong compatibility. This could be a perfect arrangement for a Domme who does her workbusiness online and can work from any



I understand that my Mistress will have complete freedom to own other subs or see other men whenever she chooses. My role is to serve and please her totally and sexually. Sexual service is an essential component for me, so I am not interested in permanent chastity ... You have exclusive rights on me, but I have no exclusive rights on you. I am generous, but not looking for findom ... money demands have no place in a real relationship and spoil it.



In the near term I am open to local erotic encounters. I am single and can host.

I am fit and virile - willing and able to verify. Pics withheld for privacy, but will be provided on request. Let me be your slave.



(I prefer to serve as a man - not into sissification or feminization).
12/10/2017 4:24:39 PM
A Proposal for Young Mistress willing to Relocate ...
 
- Live in a nice home cost-free ... you have the key.
- Come and go as you please (of course) ... it is your home.
- Own your personal slave servant (me) at your beck and call ... when I am not working my job.
- Have your friends over as you please ... it is your home.
- Have your lovers over as you please ... it is your home. 
- Have your slave serve your friends or lovers if you wish it.
- Work or not as you please. If you wish to own other online slaves for fandom or otherwise you are free to do so (of course).
- Lock your slave (me) away whenever you don't want it around.
- Never have to do any domestic chores again ... that is what your slave is for.
- Use your slave in any way that pleases you (of course).
 
What do I ask in return?
 
- To be owned and used by you on a daily basis.
- To not be abandoned, but to be valued as your property.
- To be permitted to serve you sexually when you desire it. 
- To not be subjected to findom. I will pay the household bills and your money is yours of course. (What I earn and my finances are not to be touched and I retain legal ownership of my house.)
- Having said that, as your slave property you are free to pimp me to whomever you want and whatever I earn in that way is yours to keep and use.
 
I would prefer a Domme much younger than me and attractive. This is for two reasons. 
 
First, you will have a much more energetic lifestyle suitable to a younger generation with lots of friends and activities.
 
Second, it is much more humiliating to be slave to one so much younger and her young friends.
 
It is also more likely that someone in her teens or early 20s will be more free to relocate and benefit from living in a home that would currently be beyond her means.
 
Any takers? I will provide pics and verify by video cam for any young Mistress who is seriously interested.
8/17/2017 4:57:57 PM
Why NO to findom?

When money is involved in this way in a relationship it spoils it ... it creates doubt about motivation. Is it for 'love' or is it for 'money'? One of the pure things about D/s is that it can remove all doubt in the relationship ... money spoils that. I have been there before. I would rather take my physical punishment and separately be generous to help with money when needed, but not monetary punishment or other financial obligations. You may not agree, but that is why I am not interested in financial domination.

Thrilling as findom may be it is false and superficial ... and it can never last anyway unless you are super rich. I want no part of that. I make no judgments about others on this ... I get the reasons. It is just not for me.

I also get that many dominant women are essentially preying on the weaknesses of men to demand "tributes" and drain their bank accounts as a way of making money for themselves. Sure, this is a legitimate from of domination if it is a fetish for the sub ... go for it. Otherwise such online "findoms" are just "pro dommes" by another name ... and without ever having to get their hands dirty ... laughing all the way to the online bank.

If a woman doesn't have the intelligence and drive to support herself without sucking other people dry then how can she really call herself a Domme or Mistress?
8/8/2017 12:20:05 PM
I wonder if there are any really young (even teenage) domme women needing a place to live and to be fully looked after. No rent ... no expenses. Imagine not having to work or lift a finger and having your own slave to tend to all of your needs ... having the run of the house and to invite your friends over any time you want ... in fact, total freedom to do as you please. ... I wonder.