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I've been in the lifestyle for 7 years now, recently moved back to Los Angeles from Chicago and unfortunately had to leave behind my submissive and other play partners.
About myself:
I was introduced to the lifestyle as a young adult, and have been active in it as a Dominant and Sadist for quite some time. I have a pretty varied and exhaustive list of kinks and sexual interests (which I'll surely update here at some point), but if I had to note the "highlights", they'd definitely have to include obedience training, orgasm control, degradation/humiliation and daddy/daughter play.
Secondary kinks that have also sparked my fire over the years are cuckolding (topping couples), breast play, consensual non-consent and forced fitness.
As far as my style of Dominance, I am revered for my patience and kindness. Ever since I was a kid I've had this sort of natural ability to make even the most anxious people feel safe, comfortable and energized. Never really figured why that is, but I have no complaints. I'm very assertive when it comes to setting up play sessions and meets, but I will always respect boundaries and move at a pace that we can both be content with. There is nothing worth than a man who is pushy and makes a potential partner feel rushed or unsafe. All I ask is that you respect my time and intent, as I respect yours. I have zero tolerance for endless emails.
What I'm looking for:
There are few things in this world that bring me more joy than taking a sweet, inexperienced submissive and slowly introducing her to a world of sensuality and exhilaration that she could never reach on her own. This isn't to say I play w/ or am only interested in training submissives with little experience in the lifestyle. But to be frank, there is something about introducing a young submissive to the novelty of the lifestyle that gets me off in ways I simply can't describe. To witness that gleam of fulfillment in one's eye as they approach their liberation for the first time, their simply isn't anything else like it in the world.
I should note though that I am also a very strict mentor. I have rules and tasks that I expect a submissive to adhere to, even if it takes a lot of practice, my expectations must always be met. I'm a big fan of daily journaling and daily/weekly maintenance tasks, both our schedules permitting. I always give out a questionnaire/assessment task to potential submissive and play partners, and one of the most common things I've read that stresses subs out is the "little details" and "not doing things the right way". While my expectations for those under my care are very high, I will ALWAYS do my best to give one the time, practice and positive reinforcement they need to be the best versions of themselves. Most of what drives a submissives, is a desire and need to be useful, to be guided, to feel as if they have a purpose that they can satisfy and use to make someone happy, this gives one a sense of fulfillment, pride and belonging that can't often be found anywhere else.
To be honest, my net is pretty wide in regards to what I'm currently in search of, so I'll include a short list of what I'm interested in, if the right connection were to be established.
If you identify as any one of these, please feel free to say "hi :)" and I'll happily take it from there.
- Submissives
- Littles / Brats
- Females interesting in breast play / nursing
- Pain Sluts / Masochists
- BBC Lovers/Fetishists
- Sub/Cuck Couples
- Spankees
- BBWs interested in being "forced" to lose weight
(healthy/consensual of course)
- Level 10 Phone sex kinksters (I'm legendary, bring your A game)
I prefer local partners. But fuck it, say hello regardless :)
I look forward to hearing from you!
(Slaps you in the face)
(Kisses your forehead)
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