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I figured it was time to make my profile a little more "user friendly"
For a long time I have been making video journals on this site, mostly touting personal freedom, safe play and communication...So I figure I will make some points here and hope they get through to those who read this.
This website is a horrible place to meet people. Roughly 1 out of every 100 people you meet here are worth actually talking to, maybe half of those are worth meeting and even FEWER of them are actually worth -playing- with. This is a site for the desperate and the confused on both sides of the gender gap.
So, when I say that this site turns good people into bad, I mean it. Here are some general examples: A perfectly nice individual may seem charming and interested will suddenly vanish without a trace after the conversation without any warning, leaving you feeling like a piece of unwanted garbage while the other person feels they can find and do better. I have done this myself and have sat on both sides of this example, so I am not innocent to say the least.
I am 28, and rather obsessed about physical fitness. I can bench press my own weight (roughly 245 lbs) and do cardio obsessively every time I work out (one hour minimum). So when you see my weight, you should not immediately think that I am overweight, I just am not a skinny little weed.
I have been in the kink since I was 20, and in the actual scene since I was 22. My equipment set is now rather spectacularly huge, almost six years in the making at this point. My personal preference for when it comes to play and subs focuses heavily on the concept of "personal reinforcement". I like to make my subs feel good, expecting them to make ME feel good.
Because of this, I am very flexible as a dom. I can be sadomasochistic, pleasure domination, or just about any other sort of kink so long as it does not cross my personal boundaries.
For limits, I am rather strictly adherent to health safety. I do not do anal for the simple reason that I study medicine. I know what lives in there, and it's effect on the human body should it cause an infection. I do not break skin, nor do I seek to cause permanent harm to any sub I play with. Anything that involves waste products or blood is right out, and utterly unacceptable.
Also, I don't intend on ever having a '24/7' sub, I expect my sub to be independent and intelligent, and not a leech on my pocket book. I have encountered enough of the worst kind of women, I don't intend on finding one here.
Physical fitness is a must, and I will make the clear point that I am not bisexual or gay. I appreciate the flattery, but my preferences are set in stone. I do not play with people I am not attracted to, and I will not budge on that point.
An important point to everyone I talk to: Silence is what kills relationships. Don't fall into the habit of just ceasing communication with others. If you don't want to talk to someone on here, ACTUALLY TELL THEM, or block them. Don't read the message they send (you can see if someone has read your post by going to the 'sent' section of your mailbox) and not respond, even sending "not interested" is enough to maintain politeness on this site.
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two new pics showing off most of my equipment! enjoy! |
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Hey folks, I would totally post a video journal right now, but I am in Indiana currently.
Expect one on sunday!
Strange note: I am getting a LOT of gay sub men looking at my profile. Thanks for the interest guys, flattery is a great thing... Sadly, I am very much straight. I hope you all the best of luck finding your dream dom.
Thanks for all the support on my journals though. You guys are awesome! |
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No video journal today, just a text one.
This is somewhat personal, so bear with me.
A handy tip for those subs on this site: Do not judge people you meet for having lives outside of you. Recently I was discarded because I was snow-locked in Milwaukee over the same weekend I was supposed to take someone to a party. They found another dom, and more power to them for it.
In the end, it's about people finding what they want and being happy. I can't on a good conscience be angry at the sub for that. However, I would expect from everyone enough courtesy to show patience, and know that they probably will not change plans six months in the making just for you.
After being jammed in what (in my opinion) was the most unpleasant hotel, in the most unpleasant city, with the most unpleasant weather possible... Being told "I found someone else, I don't want to play with you anymore." is quite possibly the worst icing on any cake a birthday boy could ask for. Anyone under those circumstances would be upset.
So, your tip of the day: Finding your dreamboat is an amazing thing, but be considerate of the people you tread on while you find it.
second tip of the day: Saying "I just want to be friends" is about as comforting as stabbing someone in the throat with a taser. People do not come here for friendship. |
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New video journal today... special one for Amy! |
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I see a LOT of this in women's profiles.
"I want a good man"
"I want a man of worth"
"I don't want games"
What the hell does any of that shit mean? That is basically saying "Men are horrible, worthless and abusive, you had better define yourself along MY ideas of what I want, or you won't get anything!"
Hey all you women out there...
Maybe if you were good, worthwhile and didn't play games, you would not be on this website to begin with. For those of you who have been here for a while, maybe you should recognize the trend!
If you don't have a clear and concise picture of your face on your profile, expect us to ask for it. You may think you're being mysterious and clever, but in reality it is a PAIN to talk to a grainy picture of your lips.
If you have a webcam, turn it the fuck on. If we are nice enough to turn it on, it is because we want to prove to you we are not a scam artist from China.
If you want to submit as hard as you do, come back down to earth and show some humility.
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two new video journals! enjoy! |
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New journal post coming today once I have stopped hating my side of the gene pool.
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Continuum was awesome last night! There was a bumpy start, but on the whole, it was awesome. |
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Hey folks! there will be a new video journal soon!
Topic: Silence as a form of communication. Who wins when it breaks? |
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New video journal today!
Topic: Taking the first step into the Kink. How to overcome the fear, places to go, what to do and NOT do.
Special note at the end: "Everyone here is evil" |
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Woo! video and audio greetings! check it out! |
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FRIDAY, FRIDAY, FRIDAY!
I will be holding a BDSM class at the Studio! Check out Bondagenightchicago.com for details and rsvp information!
Subjects: safety and basics of BDSM, manipulation between genders and orientations, mummification, breath play and knife play safety. |
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Well, since the sherrif came in, I will replace my scammer list with something more constructive.
Newly discovered kinks.
I found out I enjoy intense psychological and ego destruction of women. The prettier the woman, the more I enjoy bringing them down a peg or three. Making the confess they use looks to manipulate others, being snotty little brats and spoiled whores is a huge turn on. |
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VERB THE ADJECTIVE NOUN!!!! |
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| Age: 25 |
| Abington,
Pennsylvania |
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