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Hetero Male Dominant, 46,  Manchester, United Kingdom
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Must get some new pictures soon.... *sigh* Hate being photographed nearly as much as I hate writing profiles..! *Updated in parts..* (I hate these things!)
Let me get this bit sorted out and finished with now..
I will never say "On your knees bitch" (ok maybe as a joke!)
I don't expect you to say Sir this or Master that..
Ok good.. thats that bit done (I'll add to that as my list of annoyances grow).. What am I looking for? First and foremost someone with a sense of humour!! I can laugh at myself and do regularly if you can't then by all means walk on by.. Getting to know someone and earning (yes earning!) their trust and friendship is important to me, I mean how could you trust me for a meet if you hardly know anything about me?
(Oh and did I say I hate writing these things?)
Time for a bit of history/info.. I'm 39 from sunny Salford, that's in Manchester UK.. Not Canada sorry! (Wish toronto was in the uk I hear it's quite nice! :) ) I'm quite handy with a flogger or a riding crop but if your expecting to be swinging from the ceiling in an intricate piece of rope work we might have a problem... BUT! I can tie a mean knot! So drop by say hello I promise not to bite... At least until I know your name!











 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 6' 0"






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female


 Amusement Parks









 Corner Time

 Being Massaged



 Art Galleries


 Fine Dining


 Cane / Crop Discipline

 Electrical Play

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Erotic Hypnosis


 Massage (Giving)

 Medical Play

 Mental Bondage


 Vacuum Stimulation


 Curious About:

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation

 Suspension Bondage

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Journal Entries:
1/22/2022 6:05:53 AM

Well good grief it's about time they brought this back!  Be nice if you could edit your profile too. Ah well baby steps!

Just to update still in sunny Salford but the fine wine has aged a little more and I'm 46.

7/25/2017 5:55:12 PM
Another year older..... Wiser? Pass! Lol Part 2 is still coming....

6/21/2017 1:47:21 AM
Part 1.... We change because we grow... Yet we are still stubborn (trust me I own a husky I know stubborn!!) not always to change sometimes it's to accept the change. Take an experienced sub, she meets a new Dom does she just go into her previously trained routines? Maybe to show her skills but ultimately no, she listens and adapts. Learning from her new Dom and mentor, yet the Dom will take a while to accept she's listening to him and not falling back on old habits because we're too slow with change.

5/11/2016 11:02:46 AM
Good to see the clocks on here are still screwed! *sigh*

2/7/2016 6:37:06 PM
Come on Broncos...  Keep it up!!
Out of all the Superbowl Ads this year this one had me chuckling!!

2/7/2016 4:40:14 PM
I'll put it on here as last year...  I'm rooting for the Broncos!

Bare with me while I put on my flameproof suit!

2/7/2016 6:56:00 AM
So its that time of the year again... Where America grinds to a halt for one of the biggest games of the year.. In its 50th year though I'm surprised it's coldplay at half time.. I did expect The Boss or someone of equal draw but American.. Who am I cheering for this year? Good question as the seahawks didn't make it... So I shall return once I've worked out who the underdog is this year ;-)

12/28/2015 7:39:30 AM
Is it my imagination or are dates on here in emails a little screwed up? Just noticed my email thinks its Christmas eve! God no not more Turkey!!

5/26/2015 6:41:00 AM
Success I beat the cabinets into submission they have stayed up 12hrs so my job here is done...

5/25/2015 7:39:53 AM
Bank Holiday and oh look even a dom has diy to do although the ikea cabinets fight back! Oh my kingdom for a screwdriver fetcher and after battle masseuse!

5/23/2015 12:35:48 PM
It's that time again... So will we actually get anywhere or will the Australians win? If the UK doesn't win I'd actually like to see Aus win as that would upset quite a lot!! In other news how long until Graham Norton is sozzled?

2/1/2015 7:41:49 PM
Oh well... I was wrong!  (shock horror!)

Well done Patriots 2015 Winners!

As for the seahawks..  WTF happened???  Oh well always next year!

1/31/2015 7:42:17 PM
I'll put this on here tonight... Go Seahawks!

12/2/2014 12:47:13 AM
What is it with huskys and rucksacks???

Go out for 10 minutes only to return, husky looking sheepish and 2 rucksacks now minus there straps... *sigh*

Anybody would think I don't feed him!!

8/29/2014 2:52:59 AM

Paint Drying in HiDef!!

7/31/2014 6:17:26 PM
Bloomin typical...  Had a great holiday, came back to great weather (Yes I'm still struggling to get over that fact!)  Yet now full of a cold...

What did I do in a past life for this???  *sigh*

7/25/2014 9:00:30 PM
Another trip to france done...

To come back to scorching UK...  Errr  WTF??  Need air con asap!

2/2/2014 4:51:10 PM

Come on Hawks...  Keep it up!!!!

12/31/2013 4:24:53 PM
Welcome 2014... Lets hope for a decent year ahead...

12/31/2013 3:45:14 PM
Loading 2014........99% complete

12/8/2013 7:36:16 PM
That old chestnut "No pain, no gain" popped in my head earlier while at the gym.... Closely followed by god help me! LMAO! Here's to hoping I can walk tomorrow!

12/2/2013 4:58:52 PM

Choose your words carefully or they could be misinterpreted to mean something completely different......

10/5/2013 5:51:58 PM

Interesting live stream NOW...


If your into rope... Watch..  may also want to check out


2 streams I believe for 12 hrs..  Hell I need a bigger monitor to watch both at once..

9/21/2013 8:40:47 PM

Has it been that long since an update?


Well I'm no longer a smoker..  I vape (that's with a V!)


Oh and some minor PS3 game came out recently which has caught my attention...  So much for sleep!!

11/10/2012 4:38:41 PM
Been a while since I posted here.. Quitting smoking....Lord have mercy on anyone in my vicinity! Think I might find some more paint drying videos...

3/22/2012 6:57:46 AM

Currently playing Mass Effect2 on PS3 (yes I know there's a third one out!  I'm catching up had other things to do)

Couldn't believe it but there's even bloody enlargement junkmail in the damn game!!  Spam gets everywhere!

3/22/2012 5:10:10 AM

Having a wander round the depths of CM today...  And nearly split my coffee when I read this part of a profile...


willing to relocate and serve better....anal,canal, bondage,,etcc


I've heard of watersports...  But never the use of waterways or canal barges in the lifestyle.


Guess we do learn something new everyday!


1/19/2012 4:19:19 PM

Now dear reader, how would you like to have your own time machine??

You would?  Well you could go about it buying a delorean, borrowing some plutonium and floor it to 88mph...

OR!  Nip out to the shops and pick up a Kobo or Kindle e-reader, stick a selection of books you've not read on there and start reading.  You will notice how what feels like minutes passing for you becomes hours to everyone else!


This was a public service announcement.

1/18/2012 8:01:03 PM

I have a funny feeling I've said this before....  But!


I need better seating to be on here all night..  GAH!  Stiff neck!! :(



1/4/2012 4:46:53 PM

You know that feeling you get when it's time to get something sorted out....  Think that feeling/time has come to call it quits on the smokes.


I've never made it a new years resolution because it's something I knew I'd do when the time was right and also I know I can be a grumpy miserable bastard for the first few weeks.  And that always seemed the wrong way to start a new year.


I know some people out there will say just stop and you'll be fine, been there done that lasted 6 miserable weeks..  So this time I'm going to start slow, set a date and stick to it. I've done my reading, I'd love the eastern europe wonder drug that has a supposed 95% quit rate but the NHS hasn't approved it for the UK (or the US or I'd ask my friends out there to help).  If anyone reads this and can say whether the lozenges work better than that new spray I'd appreciate it (rather than reading all the PR crap).  Patches?  NOPE!  Fine for 3 days but then woah nightmare city literally!  Not fun at all.


That's all for now....  Oh and happy new year to everyone especially my friends here..



11/26/2011 8:36:10 PM

Dear insomnia,


Thanks for being there for me over the years...  But it's getting old now time for us both to move on I think.




A friend who'd like to sleep semi normal hours once in a while...

11/5/2011 6:03:12 PM

I may have said this before but...  Why is Bear Grylls so addictive to watch??  Especially at 1am????

8/23/2011 7:05:28 PM

Just started re-reading my old Terry Pratchett books..   God I forgot how damned good they are!!...



7/19/2011 7:17:18 PM

Ok where do I find whipped cream at 0316...








For the coffee I wanted earlier!!..  Found some half decent coffee (stashed in the back of the cupboard..  should be ok I think!)


God you lot have dirty minds! :-)


7/19/2011 2:12:36 PM

Why is there no Costa open late in Manchester?!?!..  Unless anyone knows differently? Could murder a decent cup of coffee!!

4/30/2011 11:52:10 AM

To go for a few drinks with old friends....  Or to stay here and chat/browse..

4/26/2011 6:26:58 PM
Missing presumed dead: The art of conversation ... Last seen quite a while ago. If you have any information to where it might be, apply within.

2/12/2011 5:02:35 AM

Hmmm...  Lara Croft, domme or a sub in hiding...


I need more sleep! lol

2/1/2011 5:43:48 PM

Uh oh..  In trouble with the elders of t'internet..  I may have broke it!



1/28/2011 5:42:16 PM

Could murder a coffee..  Coffee or insomnia...  Ahh screw it I need the coffee!!!

1/12/2011 10:04:39 AM

*sigh* better pic... Sort of

1/11/2011 7:34:33 PM

So insomnia the evil that is has returned... GREAT!.. *sigh*

1/11/2011 7:15:43 PM

Well new picture added...  Taken while having a well earned break from some DIY (of the home improvement type.. sheesh!!)  Admittedly I've been too laid back and let jobs get forgotten about..  So new year new effort to get everything done..


The awful wannabeard *cough* has all gone..  Not for me I think too much hastle and bloody itchy..

12/21/2010 6:06:38 PM

Wonder what comments I'll get for this one.....


Is it just me or does it not 'feel' like christmas?...  Usually this time of year I'm up for it, putting lights up etc just really into the spirit of it...  This year?  MEH..  Just can't find the xmas spirit...   :(  Not good!



12/9/2010 4:55:38 PM

What is it about Bear Grylls programs that keep you glued to them even at silly o'clock in the morning???


11/5/2010 8:00:54 PM

Geeky question...

Jadzia Dax or Ezri Dax ?

10/4/2010 7:06:24 PM
Well the job offer talk soon went quiet.. 

I'll put it down to harder to apply for a visa rather than anything else.. heh.....

8/12/2010 7:32:00 PM
If you were offered a job, that meant uprooting completely to either Chicago or Boston which would you go for?...

Or would you go for option C and wait for an offer somewhere else?..

Answers on a postcard..

7/26/2010 3:59:50 AM
Not written here for a while.....

On my hols for a bit....  Just need to find something to do! (read that anyway you like!)

2/28/2010 5:37:05 PM
Hmmm...  It's been just over a month since I had my cast off..

And my ankle hurts like hell still!..   Not good..  Especially when it hurts to drive :(  Fudge think I might have done something a little more serious than chipped the bone! :(

1/25/2010 6:13:13 AM
THANK GOD!  I have my leg back!!.. 

Cast is off and I can't say how glad I am to see the back of that!  

Things I've learned..  
Casts DO bloody itch... A LOT!
You feel every knock against the cast (not helpful when your trying to sleep!)
Next time the weathers as bad as the day I slipped I will go back to bloody bed! :)

1/11/2010 7:09:16 AM
Grrr you try and do the right thing, in this case get to work while everyone else was struggling.  And what did I get for it??  A broken ankle and in a full cast for 2 bloody weeks.  Happy new bloomin year! 

2 weeks of sheer boredom awaits me..  God help you souls who might be around in the chat rooms for the next 2 weeks! lol

11/26/2009 7:25:12 PM
Hello again insomnia my old foe it appears you have returned...

11/15/2009 6:49:55 PM
Not wrote anything here for a bit...  Why?  Not much going on I guess..  So why now? Well why not.. So here we go...

Hmm.. The joys of changing shift patterns strikes this week...  Oh joy...

Guess the coffee will get used more than planned!..

Phew..  Wasn't that exciting eh? ;)

8/24/2009 3:15:19 AM
Finally some time off work....

No I'm not going to complain of being bored already.. I'm not.. Honestly... I'm going to find more paint to watch dry

8/23/2009 6:53:40 AM
Why oh why. ...  working on a sunday and bored out of my skull

someone entertain me!

8/21/2009 6:12:48 PM
Why is it that even though I know coffee at this time of night is bad if I even want to think about sleep yet Carte Noir (proper coffee!!!) just tastes so damned good!!!

Bugger!  Ah well I'll just have to have another later to keep me going during the day :)  wooooooo!!


6/22/2009 3:16:39 PM
** Rant warning! **
Whoever thought mobile broadband was a good idea needs bloody shooting...  Been lucky if I can get a signal long enough to even login tonite...  I swear I'll need to find a willing (or unwilling) sub to come hold the aerial in various awkward positions just to send this! Grrrr
Thank god hopefully back to normal broadband next week....
** End of rant **

And relax... Ommmmm.... Buggerit there it goes ag...... Connection Lost

6/22/2009 6:38:27 AM
Hmmm....  How bizarre..  Another rare day off work (for those that know me, you can pick yourself up off the floor now!) and I'm BORED!  I never thought I'd say that!... *sigh* *edit.. Oh yes I did.. exactly a month ago.. FREAKY!*

Oh...  If your into your PS3 games, Ghostbusters is ok.. But too damn short!..  Not sure it's worth the cash but it's still good to have a decent Ghostbusters game ;)  ...  Hmm now when will someone bring out a game like "Rez" for the PS3...  (go look it up.. you might be pleasently surprised by what it offered!)

6/17/2009 7:19:24 AM
Ok it's not that sunny in Salford today... *sigh*

Although this link really cheered me up!!

6/17/2009 12:01:36 AM

Eee tis sunny in Salford again....

Ok I think I need a day off!

5/21/2009 9:22:24 AM
At last something good on youtube!...  It's just missing "The Gallery" music (uk visitors around my age should know what I'm on about there!)

5/21/2009 8:47:30 AM
Is it bad to be bored on a day off.... Answers on a postcard to:



2/20/2009 7:15:26 PM
By the gods its cold...

2/10/2009 6:25:10 PM

9/13/2008 3:40:46 AM
Hmm..  Now I know why most of the subs on here complain about the players on here...  Shame really..  Some of them have had good prospects, just perhaps needing a little advice/assistance to guide them down the right path...
If your a player.. Just bloody say so.. If your not sure at least be polite enough to say something...

3/7/2008 5:59:32 PM

What goes around, comes around..  Karma can be a bitch sometimes!

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