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Newly returned to site. Curious about this particular online community and the potential of possibly connecting with select locals.
I am a 40 year-old male---educated, independent, unattached and a professional in an exacting and creative field---with refined, Dominant tendencies. Seeking information, interaction and possible relationships. I make great effort to adhere to a gentlemanly standard in both My tastes and My public countenance, but that etiquette does belie a particularly rampant imagination and sinister depravity.
I have had some past experience with various partners and I find it somewhat lacking (but not impossible, nor without merits) pursuing relationships without that dimension---that intensity and that particularly deep and rare level of trust can be hard to replace. I quite relish the exquisitely gradual (sometimes instantaneous) escalation/deepening of that unique trust and the many tasks, scenarios, situations, and challenges I get to devise and implement in bringing Myself and a chosen partner there. I find Myself particularly attracted to vibrant, fiercely intelligent, beautiful individuals (primarily women) who are cultured, capable and confident in conversation and public life, who curiously find themselves in need of subverting that persona in the pursuit of discovering and indulging a secret self.
I find that dichotomy irresistible and ideally, finding a partner matching those traits would allow Me (and thus the both of Us) to strike the right inside/outside balance.
As with life in general, I still consider Myself to be learning. I welcome discussion and dialogue with all members from the lifestyle spectrum. I am here to educate Myself, to assert My nature, to make connections and eventually find an outlet/object(s) for My care and My predisposition for control. To be pleased and to unlock the pleasures of others.
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