Some Dominants think that all they have to do to "dominate" is to overpower and frighten. Such primitive thinking. It's like trying to fix a computer with a baseball bat.
I believe that the key to true leadership is understanding. I understand her mind, her motivations, her interests, and her goals. I understand her fears and insecurities. I understand how to unlock her potential. I understand her self-imposed obstacles. I understand her struggles. I understand what turns her on and what motivates her. I understand her desires, even when she does not. I understand her secrets and how they impact who she is. I understand the depths of her soul and the height of her imagination. I understand her fantasies and where they originate. I understand the "why" of everything in her life.
I understand.... her.
I use that understanding as a tool to bring her forward as a submissive, a companion, and a woman.
And she responds. She follows. She trusts. She submits.
She inspires me to be a better Dominant. She invites me to explore the deepest and most complex of secrets as I swim in her mind.
She is beautiful.