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| We are an emotionally and financially secure couple seeking a loving relationship with another woman.
She is an experienced dominant, who will switch with her husband in private, but keeps control of the relationship when a second woman is added to the mix. (Yes, we've done this successfully before - not our first rodeo!) She enjoys all types of impact play, but especially enjoys flogging, caning, and spanking.
He is a newer dominant who likes to play with rope and is discovering his sadistic side.
Are you asleep yet? Jeez, I am. How about I just write and we'll see what happens.... here goes:
I have a sadistic streak. But what gets me off is CONSENT. I like to know my partner actually desires every nasty little thing I choose to do to her. Outside the bedroom, I like to treat my girls well. I like to give them little gifts, cuddle on the couch, take walks.... and generally like to see them fulfilled. Ideally, she enjoys some amount of masochistic play and is service oriented. (Does this mean she will be our little Cinderella? No. Not unless it makes her wet, in which case, I'll oblige.) I want to connect deeply with her, and know that she is happy, sated, and enjoying the time she spends with us, however long she chooses to be ours.
He is still learning the finer art that is domination, but clearly enjoys the control it allows him. He opens up far slower than myself, but once accepted into his circle, he's a valuable man to have on your side. He can be viciously protective of what is his. I'm hoping I can pick up on some of the rope skills he has, while I show him the finer points of sensation play using all sorts of nasty looking toys.
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