I'm a friendly, easygoing dom. I was living on the Gold Coast, but for the next 12 to 16 months will be based in Townsville for work purposes. I am looking for a female submissive with long luscious legs. Personally, more into the pain that heightens pleasure, than into true sadism. Indeed, if you take it slow, the pain is transmuted into pure pleasure, and that's what I’m looking to give. I am clean, D&D free and looking for someone who is comfortable with the same. I'm open to all suggestions and possibilities, as long as they're safe, sane, and consensual. I'm more a tender, loving dom than the cruel, cold, and emotionally-distant kind. I respect limits, and would expect to discuss what both our needs, desires, and expectations are before anything of an intimate nature happens between us. For a first meeting, let’s talk over coffee, somewhere scenic, perhaps one of the outdoor cafes in the area. I'm not interested in whittling away at your self-esteem, I'd rather be responsible for you walking tall and proud, with a little tingle in a secret place, to remind you of the fun we've just had. I'm not into hot email, phone or cyber-domination, married/attached women, or anything else that precludes real life meetings or any emotional commitment. BDSM for me includes a soul connection - it isn't something one can do on a one-night stand, it takes time to achieve the twin delights, of knowledge of each other, and of comfort with each other. Update...Some subbies have mistaken My friendly easygoing nature as a weakness to do and say as they wish. I have had a few inquiries from submissives and slaves of late, I would like all new inquiries to look up in the Dictionary...the meaning of the words ...slave and submissive..then if you still want to contact me, then please do so ...while I understand the importance of health and safety issues, believe in and respect limits...The,"I will be submissive when I decide to be" attitude...isn't taken kindly to by this Lord and Master. You are submissive or your not, if you are, then you will do as you are told, if your not, then your wasting both of our time. Topping from the bottom will be met by the most harsh treatment available to me,..." Mandatory Dismissal". No flogging No whippings to bring you into line, "that only gives the subbie the control" there are other ways to ask for a flogging, you will be required to just pack your bags and leave. If your not submissive, or submissive only part of the time, then look for your kicks (literally) else where. I'm looking for a serious subbie, who wants to have the controlling influence of a kind and compassionate Lord and Master. And "No! This does not mean that I am looking for a Doormat"