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Hello, Let me take a moment to offer an introduction and share a bit about who I am and what I seek. I am an intelligent man with a twisted sense of humor who has a dry and sometimes sarcastic approach to life. I am a cynic by nature but I balance that well with a willingness to accept people for who they are and what they believe in. I love to teach and learn, often at the same time I have plenty of experience in the D/s Lifestyle and what I really enjoy is the mental aspect of submission and dominance. Don’t get me wrong, the physical portion of activities are divine but serve as foreplay for me to the real dynamic with power exchange which is in the mind. I offer no apologies for who I am, where I have or what I have done (or will do). You will find me to be easy to talk to with plenty of perspective to offer on a variety of subjects. I will not force you into submission, you will decide of your own free will if you are willing to do that with me. Once you do then that choice is made What I offer you is a chance to learn to allow someone deep into your mind and into your routines who has the skills to orchestrate that feeling of bliss a submissive can only achieve when someone they trust shows them the care and concern that’s come with the gift of submission. I am a great fan of the mind-fuck and I will take you places you do not realize you are going to. I will also make you think you are going somewhere only to look up and find you are in the same spot you were in. I have talent in the area of routine management and the ability to ensure you feel my presence and control constantly even if we have not spoken in a little while I am a person who values intelligence, creativity and initiative in a submissive. I am not concerned with your age, height, weight or personal belief system. I do require that you have pride in your appearance and value yourself enough that if you submit to someone it is because they have earned that gift from you and not because you feel compelled to drop to your knees at the first sign of aggression. If you need discretion then I can accommodate that as long as our agreed terms are adhered to. I am a professional person in the vanilla world with obligations of my own so I can appreciate your need to have an outlet for submission. Whether you are male or female you need to bisexual or at least curious about it. While they may or may not be sex involved there is a good chance that some same gender play might occur Whether you are single, attached or married is irrelevant to me. I am not encumbered by standard social mores and have no problem with allowing a submissive to function in her own world, with our activities together being an undertone. The only advantage for you to be unattached is your availability, in my opinion. In some ways I prefer if you have a significant other because that creates a venue for submission that can’t be found in a single layer relationship. I am a complicated person and do enjoy multi layered relationships. I prefer you to be local because, while i do enjoy online aspects of play, if anything develops then real time interaction will be a requirement If you seek a 24/7 arrangement then I am not the Dom for you. If you expect me to be exclusive to you in our relationship then I will only create heartbreak at some point. I enjoy multi layered relationships that inter-mingle on a variety of levels and I am very much a fan of a poly scenario. Reach out to say hello if this interests you or even to just say hi. I do not bite (at first) and am happy to simply share my thoughts and experience if that has value to you. If you contact me with submission in mind then please
6/17/2012 8:44:36 AM

Thought for the day:

who thinks about who more, Doms or subs?

6/14/2012 1:28:11 PM

Thought for the Day:

A bottom thinks "i wonder how i can get him to do that?"

A submissive thinks "I wonder how i can get that done?"

6/13/2012 11:28:00 AM

Thought for the day: Pain is relative to arousement

samonherknees
 
 Age: 23
 Wakefield, California