Further clarification may be needed on my profile - some regular misconceptions are becoming evident.

1. My sub does not live locally and whilst we do really enjoy meeting up, these visits are  sometimes only possible once every 2-3 months.  We 'both' are in a position where relocation is not an option and thus, whilst we 'both' regret it, we 'both' wish to find someone who is able to sedate our needs/desires on a more regular basis.  Neither of us see this casual play as something 'wrong' and while it would be unfortunate to have to end the understanding we have between us, we 'both' realise that another potential partner may not wish to see this continue - hence my wording in my profile.  Whoa... that was longer winded then first intended. Please people relax a little, this lifestyle is great! Enjoy it.

2. Off course I am not adverse to one night of play. I am male after all! And let's face it a once off meet has a heightened aspect to it.  But, to be completely open I am hoping to meet a long term partner who shares my appreciation for BD & D/s.  Ideally she would also be interested in nurturing a three way polymerous relationship with another women, but I would be more than happy to find a bi partner who merely wished to include another playmate on occasion.

I know both of these ideals are tall orders... but, hey there are only two things I can promise you at this stage: I will always be as honest as possible and I will always treat you with as much respect as you desire.  The  above two statements are merely setting the standard. You will always know where you stand!