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I feel what I am looking for here is a bit different than most. I find that there is a very real beauty in order, dicipline service and surrender. For me the structure, bond and relationship between servant and Master is the most important. The underlying basis is a mutual trust and respsct for the other. I have a desire, and need to provide that structure, order, disipline and guidance. To take responsibility over one who, in turn, has a desire and a need to provide service, care, obedience and surrender to me.
Sex and kink and such is but a facet of the relationship as a whole. While it is important, and needed in the relaitonship it is simply part of a larger whole. The main importance is the dynamic and the relationship. Dominance, and moreso Mastery over oneself and thier servant is more than merely a skill-set, or a mind set, but a deep emotional state-of-being. It is beautiful, trancendant and spiritual. To the one that I seek, service and obedience should be more than simply doing-as-told. It should be the her purpose and the way she finds her true happiness.
A bit about myself. I come from a very structured military family. My upbringing was traditional in that it was a Paternal-run household with the women supporting. It was perhaps a bit different than the sterotype of the 'traditional house' in that everyone was encourgaed (and prodded if need be) into helping and supporting the others regardless of "role". Everyone had a job, a responsibility, and was held accountable. While there were no set subs or Doms, there was a clear dynamic. and just as much it was clear who was where in the heierarchy.
Coming from that background gives me a unique perspective on the lifestyle. This was furthered while attenting college and discovering a lifestly group that put a name and definitions to the wants desires and feelings I had been having since early childhood. Since discovering this world I haven't looked back.
Mastery is ultimately about leadership, guidance, educating and molding my servant into being the strongest, and best servant-for me. Not a generic brand slave that you might read about in fantasy novels. It is about investing time, engery and care to build up the servant to serve-not to break the person down into something else. It is about recognising what a particular person has to offer and excentuating those things, while molding, tweaking and changing the ones that don't quite fit.
Hopefully some of this has resonated and interested you if you've read this far. If it has, I would be delighted to hear from you. Until then, be well and take care of yourself,
Until then,
M
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