I have a particular attraction to couples with a submissive male partner. The power exchange dynamic with three of us, rather than just two, is so much more powerful. And that is especially true when the other two are a committed couple. And it works for me if the female is domme, a switch, or submissive also. It began for me with the first couple of cuckold couples I met, and has expanded from there.

I seek couples with whom I have enough in common to become friends beyond the power exchange aspect of the relationship, and with whom I enjoy socializing in all the traditional ways, with the power exchange dynamic lingering just beneath the surface in all we do together.

I am a well-educated, semi-retired professional man equally comfortable at the symphony or a backyard barbeque, and I enjoy both, especially in the company of good friends. 'Discretion' is my middle name. I respect your privacy, as I'm sure you do mine. I live a healthy lifestyle, take good care of myself, and it shows. I trust you can say the same.

All couples are different and part of the attraction for me is developing a unique relationship with each based on their unique situation and desires/needs. I do not take a cookie cutter approach.

With most couples the initial attraction to a dominant man such as myself has a sexual component, but I most enjoy it when the relationship expands beyond the sexual realm. (not to other aspects of their lives ‘instead of'’ the sexual realm, but ‘in addition to’ it). If you feel you need direction and leadership in other aspects of your lives, I may well be just the man you need. I will not impose myself where I am not wanted, but I do enjoy complex relationships even more than simple ones.

All relationships are best when everyone contributes and everyone receives, and your relationship with a dominant man is no different. Please consider that before you write to me, and be prepared to talk about what each of you offers as well as what each of you seek.

Looking forward to making your acquaintance . . . .