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Pan Female Submissive, 30,  Florida
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I am the property of TheBLKLibertine. I am no longer in control of my own body and can make no decisions on who I fuck or when I do so. If you are looking to hook up please do not contact me, as you are disrespecting my Dom. I am a strong, intelligent and experienced submissive woman. Here to make more kinky friends and hopefully find some local lovers. I'm also interested in various levels of relationships but only if you're OK with poly. Quite simply, I DO NOT do mono!! Only contact me if you are open-minded, able to write well, and multi-talented. Men who consider women to be inherently inferior need not apply. I might be your sub but that doesn't make me any less of a person. I consider myself to be witty, sexy and interesting. I like the same in my friends and more-than-friends. I need communication, the exchange of power, the slow build-up of a relationship that is far more equal than it looks on the surface. I find myself to be an open and honest person who does not respect manipulators or posers. I don't hide who I am. Many of my lovers refer to me as a force of nature. My Ideal Person: A passionate intelligence makes me more excited than anything! Because I want a woman or man of substance I consider honest communication and listening to be KEY to any encounter. Physical looks matter less to me; the men I've fucked in the last year range from a George Cloonie clone to a sumo-esque steelworker although I do prefer my women to be more feminine than me. Race doesn't matter either, I've slept with pretty much all races. I care much more about personality and self-confidence, but I do have a preference for "exotic"; the more non-mainstream, the better. For example, I love goths, punks, ravers, skaters, hippies but also have a thing for the clean cut executive or housewife. While I enjoy people of all physical types, I am going to have to ask that only people younger than 50 contact me. I respect older Doms, but know that anyone truly old enough to be a parent of mine has almost no chance of playing with me. I require a stimulating partner, one who enjoys exploring a range of sexual pleasures. My limits are vast and I routinely enjoy activities that others find horrific. I love heavy corporal, edgeplay, bloodplay, and am open to some watersports as well as hundreds of other kinks. I'm willing and able to respect the limits of my lovers, this whole thing boils down to communication and listening which are two of my strong points. I am NOT interested in furries, infantalism, crap, necrophilia, age play, heavy role play, pedophiles or smoking. If you plan on fucking me I require you to be drug free and not a screaming lush, some social drinking is ok but I'm done with drunks. Obviously, safe sex is mandatory and shouldn't even need to be commented on.










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 Submissive Female


 5' 5"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

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Journal Entries:
1/16/2010 6:57:45 AM
Ok gentlemen, I realize that my profile is quite long and involves some unusual words so I guess it's time for me to point something out. There is a sentence towards the middle (and I assure you it's there) that says very clearly I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANYONE OLD ENOUGH TO BE MY PARENT. My age is listed on my profile, so do the math. In even clearer English: IF YOU ARE OVER 50 I WILL NOT MEET WITH YOU. This is not a judgement on you as a person or as a dom, simply one of my limits. Please respect it as such.

12/12/2009 12:11:40 AM
Just had some amazing group sex. Woo hoo!!! Yet once again I find myself plagued with asshole men who don't understand "guys, I'm done". I had to invent a husband to go check in on and bag ass out the front door. WTF??

9/28/2009 6:55:43 AM
There is something very very wrong with men who don't understand the words "fuck off". Something even worse is men who show up on my doorstep without invitation. Way not cool.

9/25/2009 7:35:41 AM
How shall I hold my soul so that it will not be touching yours? How shall I lift it then, above you, to where other things are waiting? Ah, gladly would I lodge it... all forgot, like some lost thing the dark is isolating in some remote and silent spot that, when your depths vibrate is not itself vibrating.

9/13/2009 5:46:48 PM
Wow... I just got some amazing fucking. Two big fat cocks at once! Wow... just wow... Time to change the sheets and take a hot bath... Wow....

9/13/2009 11:07:22 AM
Intensely horny today. I feel like I might explode if I don't get a good deep dicking soon!

9/12/2009 7:59:22 AM
I had a fantastic day yesterday. Played with someone very cool, had a great time. Can't wait to see him again!

6/23/2009 9:26:19 AM
If the thought of sorrow spoils your joy, yet it prepares you for joy. Sorrow sweeps the house fiercely, emptying it of everything, then, coming from the Source of goodness, a new joy enters. Sorrow chases away the withered leaves in the heart, then new green leaves can grow. Sorrow uproots the previous joy, then a new delight springs from beyond. -- Mathnawi V, 3678/3681 Translated by Muriel Maufroy

6/18/2009 8:58:58 PM
Well, I've been happy with my beloved for 6 months now. So of course everything had to go to hell. I miss him. I love him. I ache to hear from him again. I feel empty, hollow, totally without value without him. I don't know why he lied to me in the first place. Or why he felt the need to lie for so long. I always knew he wasn't telling me the whole truth, but I respected him enough not to push, not to read his texts and emails. I should have pushed. I should have confronted him, stood up for myself. Gods I want him back so badly. He is my heart!

1/30/2009 3:05:23 PM
I am so very happy with my new Dom. He is such an amazing fuck! But I do wish we could find another man or woman to play with. I would love to share his beautiful cock with another woman or man.... or to be doubly penetrated... so many fun ideas!

1/25/2009 6:13:25 PM
The night was cold, not a cloud in the sky to trap in the warmth. As we left the house barefoot the grass crackled under our feet. Soon my feet were burning with chill. We hustled naked through the night, breath clouding before us and towels in hand. Dark on dark we see the rise of the porch before us. I guide him up the steps, they are slick with frost. Silently we slide off the the cover of the hot tub, drop our towels onto waiting chairs and slide our bodies into the steaming water. The water was hot, scaldingly hot. The top of my body was frozen and the bottom was boiling. With a hiss I sink down to sit, submerging myself to the neck. I hear him do the same but can't see him in the darkness, there is no moon and he's too dark for the stars to illumine. I can tell where he is only by the ripples coming from the corner where he sits. I tilt my head back and look up at the stars. Hundreds upon hundreds glitter like hoarfrost. I hear him sigh softly, "They're beautiful. I'd forgotten how many you can see out here in the country." I murmur my agreement, captivated by the swirl of the milky way. A hand brushes against my leg, runs up it to grip my hip. He pulls me towards him through the water. I let myself float. Staring up at the stars I feel his hands on me, hungry, caressing, filled with wanton need. He holds me up from underneath, my nipples grow hard in the frigid air. My brain stops thinking and I am filled with simple peace. His hands part my thighs and I feel him slide up between them. His head is between my thighs, licking, nibbling. He stays there for a very long time. Pleasure builds at the base of my spine, swelling fuller and fuller as I float mindless. Hot water surrounds me, my muscles are limp and relaxed. When the orgasm comes I barely move, it slides over and through me and out onto his tongue... the place from whence it came. The surreality of that revelation takes me into a quantum-like quandary. I drift, I float, I dream. Unaware of where I am inside he continues his ministrations. Nothing will stop him from eating my pussy until the sun comes up. Orgasms wash over me again and again as I think of nothing and everything all at once. I feel connected to him and to the universe, boundless energy held totally inert by the water and the flick of his tongue. Hands on my hips pull me down and he sinks himself into the deepest part of the jacuzzi. He holds me now in a sitting position, my knees bent, my ankles crossed, my thighs sitting on his shoulders. Oh gods the glory of his shoulders deserve paeanies and sonnets. My fingers grip his head hard, pushing him deeper into the crevices of my pleasure. He responds in kind, munching on me harder, letting me feel his teeth just as he knows I like it. The final orgasm is building, I can feel it in my toes. He comes up briefly for air then sinks back down. He knows I'm close. I want to ride his face, I want to take the orgasm from him. But I can't. Thats not the way its done here, now. Now I must float. Now I must wait. Now I must not rush. I float. I look up at the palm trees black against the midnight sky. I let my mind go. There is no me worth thinking about. There is nothing here but bliss. And then it comes. It shakes me so hard, this tremor of ecstasy that the water laps out over the edges of the tub. He comes up for air and smiles at me. Pushing him back into the corner seat I kiss his pussy tasting lips and smile against his smile. "My turn" I whisper into his ear before taking a deep breath and sliding down into the inky waters.

1/24/2009 6:02:55 AM
We had an awesome night last night. I took him to the local bdsm community playspace and we had an absolute blast. The class was interesting, but the play time afterwards was way better. We've only had two or three scenes in private now but they have all been very intense, a spicy mix of violent sex and torture. Being at a public space which frowns upon insertion we had to behave. I found the challenge of this to be frustrating but also very very hot. To see him, to touch him, to taste him, to suffer under him.... but not to take him was true torment! And I must say that he was by far the most stunning male in the facility. I have a fetish for shoulders and arms and backs and his are PERFECT. He spent the evening topless and I could not help but drool. Could not keep my eyes off him. Which is not to say he was the only pretty man there, there were a handful of others. But sweet gods he is HOT! We stayed and played for several hours, moving from one station to another as they opened up. We did some flogging, some caning, spanking of course, and quite a bit of scratching. I love a man with long fingernails. At one point as we were taking a break and watching a smothering I stepped out to grab a water. When I returned an older gentleman was speaking to him about us. He was confused by our power exchange, which is quite unique I must admit. I walked up just in time to hear "so what is your relationship?" and that lead to one of the most intimate/magical moments of my life. Standing in the center of the playspace, glowing under the blacklights, heavy techno vibrating through the halflight, the sounds of strangers suffering all around us, he took me in his arms and looked me in the eyes. "What is our relationship?" he asks. And even though it was only ten days since my last boyfriend had dumped me my heart sang. How do you define dating/relationship in a world as complex as our own? He's a switch, when I'm with him I am too. We are vastly different people in the real world, yet we get along quite well. He is gentle. I am rough. I want to kneel down and worship him, but he usually beats me to it. We are both inherently poly.... we are both still on here looking for others... But yes, he is my Man. Is he my boyfriend? I don't know. He is the closest thing to a boyfriend. Is he my Dom? Yes, but yet I still want to dom him in return. This relationship promises to be weird. Weird but very very fun!

1/15/2009 12:13:53 PM
I know I've already said this.... but shower sex is HOT!!!! He got me so deep into subspace with just a few simple moves and then fucked my ass raw! I loved it....

1/12/2009 2:20:35 PM
I know that orgasm denial is a huge fetish for a lot of folks. More power to 'em. But.... read my profile.... because it sure as hell isn't for me!!! When I fuck its because I want to cum... why the hell else would I bother? Don't just shove your cock in me and tell me not to enjoy it. Thats not the way I work. Instead of getting me all subby and sappy it pisses me off... and you do NOT want to see a pissed off Irish girl!!! Ok, enough ranting.... gotta go to school....

1/5/2009 2:41:08 AM
Just a quick note here. I don't pass my yahoo out to just anyone. Do not bother sending me a one sentence request for it. You will not get it. And I'm serious about that age thing. If you are over 50 please keep looking. Last thing. If you are going to post a pic in your profile why the hell would you then pixelate/smear/blackout any or all of your features? I will not respect or respond to anyone who does that, it shows me you aren't worth my time.

12/17/2008 10:32:42 AM
I feel like I could write a sonnet to the wonderous joys of shower sex... only I'm too damned tired to remember the rhyme scheme for a sonnet. But hot damn that was some GREAT SEX!!! ....I'd almost forgotten what it was like to have a lover who could fit in the shower with me.... YUM!

12/13/2008 6:59:38 PM
The last person I met with is extremely promising. Have had three very nice dates. We will see if it goes anywhere or not. So far I am still dating my boyfriend/Dom. He visits in four days and I am very nervous. I don't know how often I'll be online between now and then, but we'll see.

12/8/2008 7:24:52 PM
I had an amazing date today. Absolutely the best out of all the ones I've gone on since joining. He was everything I think I want in a Dom, sincere, intelligent, communicative, beautiful, and very open minded. Oddly enough, it was the least intimate date yet. There was barely any touching at all, just a handshake at the end. Not even a kiss.... Usually I wouldn't even consider a guy who didn't feel the need to kiss me, but this guy really fascinates me. Happily I have another date with him on Thurs, hopefully there will be at least a little bit more contact. This week seems to be the week of second dates. Tomorrow I'm SUPPOSED to see they guy who keeps canceling on me for our second date. Then on Wed night I'm supposed to see the guy with the French accent. And then Thurs AM I see this new guy, who I am very happy with/about. Anyway, thats whats going on in my sexlife!

11/30/2008 9:37:28 AM
Went on a date last night with a different gentleman I met here. I had an absolute blast! I'm not usually one for meeting a guy at a bar, but once he showed up I enjoyed myself. Conversation is such a big turn on for me.... but I must confess that a French accent is about the hardest in the world for me to understand. I know, most chicks dig French but it just makes my head hurt. Called the guy who fell off the earth after my date since I was down by him anyway and the night was in its prime. But that was a no-go so I went home and amused myself until it was time to go and open up the store. 5 AM comes WAY too early on a Sunday morning!!!

11/28/2008 5:24:56 PM
Sex sure is an adventure... I thought I had a great connection with one of the guys I met here. We had a fantastic date, no scene but definitely a little bit of play. I was really hoping to do more with him but he seems to have dropped off the planet. :( Argued with my boyfriend for about three hours today. That's never good. He's coming down here in Dec and I really don't know what to expect. I also talked on the phone with another guy today who shows a great deal of promise. He's a five hour drive away, but it sounds like he'd make the trip worth while. We share a lot of the same interests, such as morning blowjobs.... So who knows, maybe he'll be the next Dom for me?

11/23/2008 6:58:53 PM
Just came home from a nice date with a dom I met here. Had a very good time talking. I hope to see him again, but there is still a certain someone on here that I am holding out for. He cancelled on me and now I can't get him out of my head.

11/20/2008 8:25:00 PM
So far I am very glad I have joined this site. I've spent almost every night this week writing and talking to Doms, which is great for my pussy but bad for my work. There are several people here who I really want to meet and one who I will be meeting this weekend. I can't wait! I am so excited. My current Dom gave me permission to do whatever I might want to, carte blanche so to speak... Currently I'm sitting next to the phone waiting for a call back. I'm going to give up soon and go to bed. If hes serious the phone can wake me but I really need the sleep!

11/17/2008 4:23:39 AM
Well, the diamond in the rough finally got in contact last night and the wait was worth it. I hope to meet him soon as he is not too distant. Still waiting for feedback from my current Dom... wondering what the hold up is. Could he possibly be having second thoughts about dumping me?

11/16/2008 6:16:04 PM
Hmmm.... well, tonight sure is a change from last night. So far only two people have written me. One was not my type of Dom. The other wanted to meet me on yahoo. I gave him my name and have been waiting around for about 2 hours now. My hot chocolate is now cold, my pussy is still wet, and I'm sitting around talking spirituality with a former lover. Yawn... I think I'm going to have to give up soon. I don't think I've ever been cyber-stood-up before.

11/16/2008 4:25:21 AM
Wow, last night was interesting... Full immersion into collarme popularity! I don't usually stay up late IMing but I think I had about 20 different people pinging me till the wee hours. It was fascinating... There's a lot of variety out there. A lot of people who just want to get off. And a lot of very needy people who I think really need a friend as well as a fuck. After many hours of sorting through the rough I think I might have found a diamond though.... We shall see where this lead goes....

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