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| This is the couples profile for Ubasti, if we are e-mailing from this account, it means that we are looking for toys that my husband and I would SHARE or, dear I say, use together. We are in no way shape or form interested in men (anyone with an XY is a man by our definition). He has owned many a live in slave in his day and he can be wickedly creative, smile. She has been in and out of the scene for years, has had many a slave and submissive at her beck and call, but not found one worthy of keeping at home ... yet. We are both well educated professionals, both exceptionally active and absorbed with various communities and interests outside of BDSM.
If you are looking for a dominant couple, by all means drop us a note. We can play anything from mild to ... we adjust as necessary, but hard limits are scat, blood, unsafe sex, animals, men (for either of us, but happy to pass around the right girl if necessary), and children. We have both played fairly extensively so we can easily go wherever it is you think you want to go and go from there, smile. Ideally we would like something longer term (TPE or otherwise), but let's be honest, a fun buddy now and again ... I approve.
As to photos, ladies, your photos and information is public domain on this site, you can be Googled. EVERYTHING you post here can be Googled. So don’t get all snotty about photos, happy to share them, not impacting the wealth of the household so I can be seen on Google. I’d expect the same level of prudence on your part as well.
Also, CM is fairly flake oriented, so I (the female) prefers to move to the phone quickly when possible and I don’t like to invest a lot of time on meaningless chatter and fantasies, when I know you are legitimate, happy to invest in possible reality. If you prefer to speak with him (and I am fine with that) let me know and I'll see to it that he takes over managing your conversations ... he also tends towards the phone quickly as well. We are both anti-flake, we don't need to meet tomorrow, we needn't "get down to business" right away, we just want to know that you are real. Relationships take time and we are great with the investment when we know it is someone worth investing in.
If you are scrolling through our likes and dislikes, keep in mind its for a couple and some are his and some are mine. I also intentionally left BDSM stuff off, you can speak to us directly because much of what we like or don't like depends on the third person :)
We live in OC and in the process of looking for a home in LA,
we are in LA 2-3 times a week (actually I am in SD 1-2x a week as well). Anyone who knows us, will understand how this is true, we are 25 minutes from Santa Monica and 15 minutes from San Diego.
Drop us a note!
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Chat does not work on my computers, if I've spoken to you on the phone, I am happy to chat via Yahoo, g-mail, AIM
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As to relocation, we are open to meeting people who may be interested in relocating. That said, no, we will not be paying for you to relocate. You are an adult, entering into a relationship; that is a responsibility you incur. It might be the last responsibility that you take on alone, but that choice is wholly yours. Following through with your own money and time and passion shows commitment on your part. Our personal space is sacred and someone moving into it we do not take lightly. If you require someone to pay your way, may I suggest something like SugarDaddy.com or GreatNigerianScamIdeas.com? We expect that a 3rd member entering our home would contribute, not equally, but contribute nonetheless.
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Ladies, we initiate e-mail very rarely, even if we are interested, as we are quite
busy and one liners/spam are not the way we like to communicate. If you want to know more about us, just drop a note; we are more
than able to keep a conversation going, we just don't have time to send
note after note in a community that, generally speaking, is flaky,
unresponsive and often double speaking.
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A note about polyamory. I had an interesting chat with a woman this week who railed on how polyamory is just another word for a man being a cheating -ss. I take extreme issue with that stance and I challenge anyone who shares it. I think it is narrow and utterly counter to being a bi-sexual woman.
I am a WOMAN and I am a dominant woman. I could not imagine my husband forcing a woman on me or cheating on me. That is an insane notion to consider. A successful D/D relationship is founded on trust and respect, hence any notion of one being forced into doing something is counter to the whole idea of an open honest Dominant union. Any woman or women we chose to have in our space is chosen by us, usually by me specifically (even if he is the primary contact with the woman, she doesn't exist without my firm nod). The bottom line is (forgetting BDSM altogether) that no matter how talented I am in bed, I will never have 2, 3 or 4 mouths. And he will never have certain items I enjoy either. Our 3rd and 4ths are chosen and enjoyed by us both. We aren't cheating as we are both in the room when the choice is made and are well aware of what is going on, the act of cheating requires, by definition, a lie. Even with a slave in tow, I am painfully clear up front that even in a live-in TPE situation *I* would not be monogamous with the triad and I would hope my husband wouldn't be either. The concept of having only one (or two) partners is utterly foreign to me, my liking the desk girl at a hotel and seducing her up to my room diminishes neither my love for my husband nor my care for a slave. And if anything, if desk girl is really awesome, I would hope they would appreciate my bringing her home for the enjoyment of us all. As long as things are done safely and honestly I think polyamory is amazing with the right women.
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| Age: 33 |
| NYC,
New York |
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