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Unconventional guy seeks an assertive, attractive, confidentand proudly feminine woman who is comfortable with who she is. She recognises and acknowledges her needs - even though they may differ from society's accepted norms. A worthy Goddess who wishes to enjoy life to the max - physically, emotionally and intellectually, without needing to justify her choices to anyone. Imagine an Alpha partner - totally acceptable to your family and vanilla friends - who not only accepts and respects you for the Superior Female you are and places your needs before his own, but also gleefully and willingly submits to your will, kneels before you and succumbs to your control. A submissive partner who encourages you to explore whatever avenues your heart or head desires, without constraint. From your perspective,I shall always be absolutely committed to you within a relationship designed to fulfil your needs - yet simultaneously acknowledging that I cannot possibly offer all that you desire or deserve. This means that I accept and agree that you have both the right and the freedom to seek anything you desire outside of the relationship with my knowledge and support.

I have an unusual perspective on, and respect for, females in general and, more specificall,y the relationship I seek. This will enable my partner to exercise more control and enjoy more freedom than most. Whilst I shall always be monogamous, loving, caring and protective of my partner, placing her on a pedestal, serving her needs and enabling her to maximise her pleasure - she shall enjoy the fruits of our unconventional bond, allowing her to explore anything she desires with confidence and my support and assistance.

Whilst I obviously have some ideas and expectations fed by prior experiences - I fully understand that such a relationship is primarily based on what the Dominant Female requires and desires - rather than on any needs I might have. In truth, this of relationship, once trust is established and some time has passed to allow both Domme and sub to become more attuned to one another - becomes something of a spiral - with the Domme seeking more, pushing the sub further, with growing expectations. Conversely the sub feels a spiraling commitment to the Domme and his deep felt need to please her. This allows boundaries to be pushed with the sub enduring the never ending torment. - His trust in his Domme convincing him to comply, yet fear, frustration or pain making compliance difficult. This balancing enhances the pleasure of the Domme significantly - and, sometimes, I wonder if I could ever refuse my Goddess once so entrapped, so caught up in service to her. And she enables me to overcome my ingrained male ego - understanding that the only pleasure I should expect, is the pleasure I obtain in pleasing her.

This lifestyle - moving between convention and our private dynamic - requires very open and honest communication together with trust, mutual respect and honesty. I am willing to consider any suggestions or proposals with an open, non-judgemental mind - so please feel free to contact me.
XxShadowCatxX
 
 Age: 28
 Somewhere, Oklahoma