MY NEEDS I need to be in control. I need to be respected. I need to be admired. I need to be trusted. I need to teach and lead you. I need to be accepted the way I am now. I need to be appreciated. I need to be vitally important in your life. I need you to be strong and self-confident. I need space and freedom. I need to be sexually satisfied. I need to know she wants to do things for me (pamper me! If you feel my needs then take my hand follow my don't let it slip through your hands like grains of sand!
HER NEEDS She needs to feel controlled. She needs her feelings validated She needs to be heard and understood. She needs reassurance. She needs to be needed and appreciated. She needs attention. She needs to feel cared for. She needs to feel special. She needs to submit (to follow your lead, to do what you want). She needs closeness and intimacy. She needs to nurture (do things for her partner). She needs to please sexually. Dominant 100% Experimental 96% Sadist 93% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 93% Switch 61% Bondage 36% Vanilla 29% Masochist 29% Degradation 25% Submissive 7% *****
Like most people I'm not big on things like this but I guess its one of those necessary evils that needs to be dealt with to get where one might want to be or find what one wants. Like I mentioned above I've kicked around here and the other popular D/s site for about 10 or 12 years. So although I don't have a wealth of experience I'm not a total newbie either. I'm game to give most anything a try. I have a "fetish" list...and some groups that I visit....they are not the whole of me.... but day to day these are the things that cross my mind enough to make those lists. I should join a few more groups...... Kinky & Popular would be a lot cooler with less models and more regular folks. I'm Drug, disease, and virus free and will be staying that way....
..I might be more of a Kinkster.
I'm definitely not a hard core sadist but I do enjoy some of that. I don't own any leather...other than my belt...and I bet that isn't real leather. I'd like to see more ladies in my range here on collarspace. I think10 years one side of the other is fine....and that's not set in stone...but. Never fear dropping me a random note....I'm sure women get them much more than men do.... so its sort of cool seeing I have a new message at the top of the page.
As far as what I'm looking for and what attracts me?... a nice smile (the best curve on a woman is her smile!...I do love curvy) is the feature that grabs my attention...and then simply someone who is fun and has a desire to explore some things that you see I have listed here. And we need to be able to talk...if after meeting a couple times there are still those awful pregnant pauses.... something isn't sparking.
I've been to a munch.... my schedule makes it difficult to make them but I will be at more soon. I'm somewhere between Buffalo and Rochester...so sometimes I switch up my location between those 2 places..and once in a while I'll throw in a Batavia just to mix it up.
Even though I'm involved ... Were interested in meeting someone.... Say hello
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2/20/2016 6:23:36 AM
My baby my gf my buddy my pal pass on 2/17/16 11:31 am this pain that I feel right now is unbearable I can think the wall not only close in on me it feel like the whole house has cave in on my someone you love so much will never say hi hello how you doing or I love you, baby, yes I'm going to miss all that, and more. They say time will heal a broken heart well it's going take a long time for this heart to heal I know.
