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These things are never right the first, second or fifteenth time but it is reflective of who I am. I have also decided to make more use of my journal and will update this from time to time.
I will start by saying I am looking for a serious relationship with a sub female.
I have lived my life as me with no apology for who I am, done things on the tube, trains parks and at home that make me smile now writing about it. I enjoy every minute and if you are the same then ideal.
A love of photography, music and the arts all run through me and I do enjoy taking photos, and no they arent of a deviant nature ... you do have a filthy mind dont you ..Music from listening to performing. The is a great deal of scope for discussions and more than just deviance.
I believe in old fashioned values and I am not here to play games and expect that those that contact me are the same.
This is a part of me, since the age of 16 and I can say that I have enjoyed many things but there is still much more to go, and each experience is tempered by a new person alongside and like I said the rest is waiting here.
As for what I want its that mercurial mix of alt and vanilla relationship, where you get to share and experiment without excuse or embrassment, add to that someone who is imaginitive and willing to experiment therefore is a must lol.
Aspects of my ideal person
I dont expect that there is an ideal person, but I what i do think is that there are many who feel the same as I do.
You will be sane and sensible to the outside world, although mild insanity is permitted.
You can be a beginner or more experienced wish to explore more, a love of fetish would be ideal nothing specific but imagination and a sense of humour are a must.
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Merry Christmas to one and all. |
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What is in a name ?
Names tell you something about that person even if they dont have a profile, you get a feel for who / what they are. I chose mine because it meant something to me... why did you choose yours?
Something that I have noticed is that there are a number of Sarah's who are interested in fetish, what names have you noticed a pethora of ?
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Weakness
Mine mmm i will add to this I think but redheads. My journal doesnt always have a point.
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Experiences
No before we start this is not going to be a list of the kinky things i have done.
Profiles are littered with must be experienced, must have been dom or sub for x years. I am here to say that attitude means more than experience.
You can live your life with one and find that something is done in this way with another it could be that way it is simply attitude that matters, and I suppose hand in hand with that communication.
And no, communication does not mean barking orders at a sub, it is far easier to set time aside to listen and talk, it makes her (him) more relaxed around the dom and opens them to further exploration.
This is the nub of it, the joy of this for me is in the exploration not that a sub does x or y, that does give me pleasure but to journey with another and be their tutor is my delight.
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Collarme
Collarme has always been and always will be like a pub to me, it is full of people all here to enjoy themselves in the main. Now like a pub we sometimes catch the eye of someone that interests us, the advantage being we see from their profile more information than you would get from seeing someone across a room.
So how to approach each other, oh that age old dance like everything else text based, sms , email and MSN context is all so I find a simple hello, good evening etc are the easiest greetings.
A good conversation is one of the best things in life and on collarme, lets face it most of us havent exactly advertised what we are interested in to our family and friends and Collarme is a good way to exchange thoughts.
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You can never wonder what could have been you have to jump at life and risk something to get what you want, if you dont then all that will happen is you will live in a world of regrets and expose yourself to half a life.
Someone told me that when I was 17 and I have lived my life by it, I have loved every minute and you know it will continue.
We all have days when life kicks the crap out of us, this search does it to me sometimes. Its like a piece of me is missing.
Until then I smile and get on with my life knowing that i will find her.
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Manners maketh the Dom?
I may be a Dom but I am a gentleman first, I was brought up not dragged up so I do use the normal social graces i.e opening doors, offering my chair etc. This does not make me any less Dom it just means that I show people respect, I cannot abide people who cannot acknowledge that just because someone is sub does not mean that they are sub human.
At the heart of this is a search, I want to find a partner, someone who I can share all this with and that requires some level of realism. You may believe that a Dom should not be respectful, that morales and polite behaviour is left at the door, and in certain situations that is true, but in the main a Dom should treasure a sub and nurture with care.
This sounds like a rant and it probably is, but the point is manners maketh the Dom, along with some nice restraints, clamps and a positive mental attitude lol. |
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| Age: 28 |
| Houston,
Texas |
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