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	Get unlucky: I am looking for a long term BDSM relationship with a woman that will approach slavery. People do not start out as fully formed slaves. People can be submissive, and learn to be more so but it is a darker path to slavery. Slaves don’t just learn to do things for their owners, in my relationships they are conditioned to do them, to become identified with their place and to not want to leave it. This process of enslavement isn’t just a means to an end, it’s an enjoyable process. I am not looking for a partner or for someone to move in with me or for a vanilla relationship. I expect your slavery to be simple, not complicated as other circumstances can sometimes make life. I do not want to destroy or otherwise damage your life and ability to live it. I only want to train you to be my property. As things progress, I expect you to contact me and want to do what I say. I have been involved in D/s for the past 25 or so years. Over that time my primary relationships have been D/s, I’ve been involved in much BDSM play (in private and parties) and have owned 3 women (by which I mean I considered them complete slaves). I have a taste for extremes, but often extremes can be found in persistent subtleties, all be it often when those subtleties are expanded to their logical conclusion. Control and service are very important to me, as is my sadism, but the root of my motivation is sexual: I get hard from controlling women, from conditioning women and by causing women pain and appreciating their pain. I equally get hard from causing humiliation. I would expect that this would be a significant part of your motivation also. This should make you wet. I don’t mind where on your journey you are. All that is important is that you come to me without any pre determined limits. Limits are not the same as likes (I would like to know your initial likes and dislikes). As part of your enslavement you may be pretty sure you won’t like some of the things I will want to do to you but as long as you don’t regard what you don’t like as a limit you are what I seek. It’s my job to acclimatise you to my desires and to the fact of doing things you don’t like. I am looking for an in the flesh relationship. I am not interested in web cams or online domination: I like to flirt as much as the next man, but not at the expense of delaying my search. I would prefer to meet as soon as possible but as this is intended to be a long term relationship I am prepared to take some time getting to know you before meeting if you feel nervous about doing so. However I would expect you to want to talk on the phone near the start of this process to gage compatibility of personalities and aims – not to mention attraction – so that neither of us is wasting their time. I’ve been into kink for a long time and so have accumulated a fair amount of equipment and experience in using it. But I still regard the ability to control as a more valuable skill. My list of interests will give you a fair idea of the physical things that interest me, but will not tell you much about the mental aspects – and in truth those elements don’t transcribe well on to lists - It’s better to ask me for details, However to give you some idea, orgasm control (and on command), ritual and rules are very important concepts to me, as is the psychology of slavery. I have some outline parameters that I would hope you would meet these are given below. Other than that, you should contact me to find out more. Personality: You should be naturally compliant or be keen to need to develop your compliant side. We should get on, but as I’m easy going so for most people that should be straight forward. Location. I desire regular meetings and training sessions. This may only be possible if you live in the south west of England as I do, or near to that area. Age: You would probably be within 15 years of my age. I’m not discounting anyone outside of that range but I would need to talk to you to gage your suitability. Contact me to ensure that age will not be a problem. Physical appearance: Is far less important than the mental connection and personality.

1/5/2014 5:16:28 AM

Is it wrong to want to use a stainless steel coffee tamper as a butt plug?

10/26/2013 7:12:35 AM

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3/23/2013 8:37:35 AM

I've added pictures of some gags and various instruments of cunt torture in my collection.

2/3/2013 3:31:34 PM

Exercise #2: Fate

In this exercise the act of writing is important, only the final part should be typed on a computer. It also isn’t a quick exercise; it should take several days to complete to leave time for you to absorb and be influenced by it. Read all the instructions in advance and if you feel the need to consult whatever resources (in terms of stories, videos, pictures) that you feel might help you.

Firstly I want you to think about something that you really like kink-wise. I want you to imagine a scene involving the activity and write it down. Take your time to get into the mood - this should be a thing that turns you one the most. Immediately you have completed this I would like you to think about something you don’t like to do, something frightening or a turn off. Again, write out a scene involving this.

After you have finished wait at least 8 hours (overnight, but it can be longer).

Next I want you to delve deeper into your psyche. I want you to think about the darkest most extreme situations, physically and emotionally. Then I want you to masturbate while imagining a dark scene but without orgasming. Let you excitement guide you to your own darkest needs. When you feel that you are suitably excited stop yourself from coming, instead write down what you have imagined. Immediately you have done this I want you to imagine a scene which involved activities you believe I might like the most and write that down. Your reactions in the scene should be realistic but perhaps reflect my desires. You may not orgasm until after you have completed this task.

Leave at least a day until the final part of the task.

The last part of the exercise is best started immediately before you go to sleep. Firstly I want you to you to re-read all you have written so far. While you read try to remember how you felt as you wrote each part. Then (if you are not already there) go to bed and let yourself drift off to sleep while still thinking of all of those scenes. Let them drift into the back of your mind in whatever way they will until you finally sleep. The next day, as soon as you are able, type out in a message a short description of your service in a scene when you are a fully trained slave.

1/27/2013 3:53:42 PM

Exercise #1: Service

I want you to make a drink for me. It can be any drink, an orange juice, whisky or a tea: What I require is that you do it mindfully\ and present it to me in the way I wish.

It’s important that you have time to do this and are relaxed and unhurried. Start off with a shower or bath and when you are finished dress in a robe or night gown. Now prepare the drink. Once the drink is ready you need to be in the correct state to present it to me, naked and aroused. Masturbate to make yourself wet and open but don’t orgasm. Once you are nearly ready to come, stop, pick up the drink walk forward and put it on a table as if presenting it to me. Wait while you mentally count to 15. You have now completed the exercise, you may go and make yourself comfortable and masturbate to one or more orgasms while thinking about what you have just done.

You may repeat this exercise as many times as you need to such that you complete it perfectly: Perfect means that you don’t find it difficult to get aroused or stop masturbating when it’s time to present the drink and such that your cunt is as wide open and aroused as you can possibly make it (you are allowed to use large objects to open it further if you wish - as large as you wish).

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princessanneo111

Age: 21

New York, New York