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Hello Everyone,
More or less, I am submissive by nature, but not as an identity or role... rather I am just a get along go along sort of person, and I take pleasure in other peoples happiness so I am often wiling to defer my desires for others. i have a black belt and I study many different martial arts, so I have no problem being assertive if it is necessary, but it is my nature to be more passive.
Sexually speaking, I can orgasm just by thought (touchless), and orgasm without ejaculation if I want (and I am careful), so finding another person to masturbate on top of is not really valuable to me, compared to having an emotional connection or interpersonal fulfillment.
There is a lot about myself I still don't know, but when I think of all the girls I ever had a crush on, they are usually soft spoken/compassionate, even tempered but strong-willed, and self assured, not needing my approval to feel confident. Almost always they had some way of making me feel young and vulnerable.. but I like that... and if it is just the right way.. I totally melt.
I am not into violence (spanking is fine), and certainly not slavery or financial domination so if you're looking to milk me for all i'm worth, you should know up front I am a broke undergrad.. I typically gather my own self worth via different means.. But I think I would find it very rewarding to treat a woman like a Goddess if that made her happy (depending on which goddess lol).
I do have some kinks I am interested in, but honestly, being able to cuddle up and watch a movie with a beautiful girl who I can talk to, enjoy being with, and find intellectually and emotionally engaging is 1000 times better than even my most twisted fantasy with a stranger. I don't judge others for having a different view then me, but I view my kinks as clues into my physical and emotional desires, not as a replacement for them... What good is kindling if there is no fire? It is not that I need to be in love in order to enjoy sex.. it is that I am somewhat sapiosexual, and there is a thrill in surrendering to... well I think you get the idea.
So if you have read this far, and my vagueness has not turned you off, please send me a message, or feel free to ask me a question. In the end I don't know what I want for sure, and consider myself in a phase of exploration.. but I'll do my best to answer honestly and completely.
Thank you for your time,
-Ty
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Okay... so first big mistake.
I sent a few vague messages complimenting people, and I guess I was too vague because more than one person wrote me back annoyed that I did not tell them what it is I wanted..
I just wanted to pay them a compliment :/
But I guess they thought I was being rude... because I should be more upfront about what it is I wanted from them. But really I just wanted to be friendly and make their day a little brighter...anyways I am surely to shy to just cold-call my fantasies onto people whom I have never met.
I'll have to be more thoughtful when I write people on here I suppose. |
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| Age: 37 |
| Ontario,
Canada |
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