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Imagine a Battered Zen Battleship...

A survivor of numerous engagements and encounters,, experienced, strong and dangerous but not unscathed. Recent overhauling and component upgrades has allowed me to begin the preparation needed before sailing once again into harms way. I have had a varied and eclectic career working both mind and body.

Im a cheerful and grounded chap who enjoys both real-life (I have a job I enjoy and want to keep) and the rather more sensual world of somewhere like here.

To DOM or to sub, that is the question. Yet each has strengths as they interact together

Each has its weaknesses...
Only together can they find a balance..
Each living off the other.

I am an Alpha to be sure, and a Dom and a sub as well. So that being said

To HAVE a real partner one needs total trust, total synergy.
Having someones back is a synergy between two people that works best when only
THEY know there is such a connection.
Each must be strong alone or they will be weak as a pair.
With trust like that a pair can take down almost anything.

Being adaptable, flexible, knowing when it is best to follow yet having the ability to lead, being strong in either role. Weak followers who blindly allow themselves to be herded, are as bad as ego driven leaders guiding others down risky paths. We all have both parts in our selves but one tends to be the driver. It is not just the ability to use and understand the strength of both, it is learning when to make this switch.

Kink has been a huge part of my life for over 20 years. Im very experienced, Im ethical and Im creative. I have a wide and varied set of fetishes but Im looking to push my boundaries and explore new places with the right woman. Im looking for someone whos uninhibited and adventurous. Who can be submissive and bring out my inner Dom whilst being comfortable with switching for sensual domination. Someone who wants to get lost in the connection between us and push her boundaries too. For us to get lost in each other and the space we create. I need someone truly kinky to her bones. If youre out there, get in touch...

And because there is a life outside kink, the other stuff.

Fit friendly intelligent professional divorcee with a mischievous sense of humour is looking for a like minded lady to explore his love of most things kinky - DS, bondage, latex, electrics, toys, floggers etc while learning more about less familiar aspects of the DomSub relationship.

So here I am looking for a relationship - that proper one, 2 people on the same wavelength, normal day to day and kink as the added bonus. Into books, music, film and would like someone who enjoys these too.

Ive been here before but went away. Came back. Went away. Tried vanilla dating but that look of shock if kink comes up in conversation has stopped being amusing. Ok, its still funny but would prefer a knowing smile...

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adri22
 
 Age: 45
 St. Cloud, Minnesota