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Twistedshadows

just a little bit about me...

Im a fairly lax, easygoing guy. I've been into the lifestyle now for a few months, and its really become a major part of my life. I am quite dominant, though there is a little bit of a switch side to me, its not really obvious, nor is it something most will see, hence why I didn't set my profile to it. Some lucky girl might get to see that part of me someday, but don't count on it.
I am very open to expirementing, I have more kinks and interests than I care to count. I have a taste for bondage, among other things, though there is a bit of a quirk to me. I am not overly obsessed with sex, as a good deal of people seem to be. I like it, dont get me wrong, but I am not running through lists of profiles looking for the most likely fuck buddy. Im good for it, you can take my word, or that of any that have gotten me in bed before, but it's not something to expect from me. It is, in my thinking, a reward, and thusly will be givin pending behavior.
I am fairly flexible, as far as people go, but I do have my preferances. I dont mind those somewhat older than me, but please, no one past their mid-thirties. I really dont like pushing more than a few years beyond my own age, though I have met some in the low thirty range that really fit with me, so its more or less the person.
I am bisexual, though before I get pounced on by every guy around I will say I am very selective about men. There are certian ones that immediatly fall into place with me, and others that just dont, so don't take it personally if I dont message back, your just not my type.
Please no one take offense to this, but I am rather picky about looks. I am told (I dont like to judge myself, makes me feel like a bigot) that I am quite attractive, and I would wish for someone that is likewise good looking, and somewhere within my weight range. I can work with a little over, thirty pounds more at the most, and taller doesnt bother me much, but I find it hard to work with someone that outsizes me by fifty plus pounds.
I am not highly demanding. I am very relaxed, kind, and gentle. I expect obediance through affection, I see a master/slave relationship to be a rather intimate one, not the "you are my bitch, do as I say" type. I do not force anything, its just not how I work. If a slave wishes to please me, and is obediant, then they will follow my commands. I like rewarding, good behavior earns treats and the like. Though, before you judge, dont think for a moment that I am soft. I have no objection to giving a good lashing when deserved, and of course, with someone that is open to such things.
just to get this out there, I am a "furry". Its just an interest of mine. Dont know what it means? do a little research on the "furry fandom"
I am a bit of a romantic. I like candle lit dinners and walks on the beach, that sort of thing.
Want to know more about me? Message me, I love to chat.
5/22/2008 12:28:09 AM
My profile is apparently in need of a very serious update -.-
4/17/2008 8:43:29 PM
Well, again its been ages since I came around to collarme, but I figured it was time to sign on and adjust my profile to the recent changes. Went through a rather short lived relationship, stumbled around for a while on the idea of dating again, and finally turned back to the calling of a master/owner.
I modified my location, last month I made my trek across country from New York to my newfound home in northern Colorado. Been jumping around a lot, may have finally found a place to settle, so now its time to rebuild...
10/21/2007 7:09:13 PM
Hm, well now, its been a while since Ive signed on to collarme. Someone on the forum that showed me this site mentioned it a couple days ago, and I went "OHSHI-! I havent been on there for ever!" So... back to collarme. I didn't expect a whole lot from this place, never was a huge fan of online hookup sites, but I did get to know one almost local guy through it who is actually halfway decent, so I guess its not that bad, eh?. Im floating right now, between unstable jobs and getting ready to move around, this and that... the usual wanderings of life and such. Still here though, so... *waves* Hi, once again.
7/20/2007 11:37:10 PM
Just changed my pic, sorry its not approved yet. Message me if you want to see.
7/20/2007 11:36:41 PM
Well, before people lunge in and hope for a long term something with me, I guess I will put this out there. Im at a turning point of sorts, waiting on paperwork and the like, and I may be vanishing for a little while. Looking at joining the military, hoping really, as soon as background checks and all that fun stuff gets done. That said, I'm still here for now, so for the time being, anything could happen.
7/20/2007 11:34:28 PM
God I hate making profiles. Its like I'm psychoanalyzing myself. Creepy...
Anyway, Its done now, at least as much of it that I'm going to do for a while, runnin out of caffine, I think.
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 Age: 20
 Hickory, North Carolina