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I apologize in advance for the long profile, but I had a lot I needed and wanted to say, and even then, I feel I missed things. I would truly appreciate it if you read the profile before judging me or the fact I have no picture posted, which I explain why toward the end. I also post on the message boards if you'd like a better idea of me. To clear this up, I am single. And please, don't be shy. I am very friendly. Please, keep in mind, that while being a switch, I can be very dominant, or submissive based on the person I am with, which makes me no less of a master or a pet.
To start, I'll explain the screen name, which describes my personality. At heart, I'm just a big kitten. I'm loving, affectionate, caring, cuddly and loyal. I have a bit of a dark side in some of my desires and humor, but overall, I'm harmless. I am admittedly a bit new to this, but I am willing to learn and experiment within my bounds, either as a pet or a master.
While I am a switch, at the end of the day, I'd like to know that I am either the master or the pet. I know some people believe that a switch is undecided or unsure, but for me, all it means is that I am comfortable in and enjoy both roles. While I enjoy both, I like a defined role for myself and my partner. I am either the pet, or the master, and she is either the mistress or the pet. I'd be happy with either a pet with a slight dominant streak, or a mistress with a slight submissive streak, just as long as my role and my partner's are defined. I don't mind letting my pet have a little fun with me, or a mistress that desires me to have a little fun with her.
I use the term pet, because that's how I view my submissiveness, and the submissiveness I'd want. To me a pet is someone to be treasured and cared for, loved and shown affection to. While you do own a pet, its still cared for and loved, even if it is yours and does what you want. I'm not harsh or abusive, nor do I want someone to act that way toward me.
For me, dominance and submissiveness isn't just something for the bedroom. Its more a way of life, a part of my personality. It would be 24/7 for me, and my pet or mistress would be a big priority in my life. I obviously still have to go to school and work, but relationships mean a great deal to me, and I love to spend my time with someone I care deeply for. I don't tire of people and could easily cuddle for hours, or spend time together in other ways.
As a master, I seek a pet that is obedient and willing to do as I say because making me happy makes them happy. I am not looking for someone that wants to be my doormat, or looked at the same way I view a shovel, nor am I looking for a punching bag. My ideal pet is someone that, while being owned and doing as I say, is loved, appreciated, and cared for. I am very affectionate, and will always give my pet attention. I am not fond of inflicting any serious amount of pain, in other words, a rosy bottom, maybe some nibble marks, but nothing extreme or permanent. I do not discipline while angry, and the discipline is first discussed, to make sure it is both warranted, and understood by the submissive. If a rule was broken and its the pet's fault, discipline will be given. If a rule is broken, and its my fault for the rule being unclear, I will take responsibility for it, correct the rule, and discipline, but less severely since it was my fault, but the rule was still broken. The discipline will always fit the incident and won't be a chance for me to "get revenge". I like to think of myself as kind and affectionate, gentle and caring, but I'm also not a pushover. I expect a pet to follow my rules and obey my instructions. If my pet has limits, which most people have something they won't do, those limits will be discussed and respected. I won't do anything that breaks my pet's trust in me. There is a lot I haven't done myself yet, but I am fond of bondage, collars and leashes. I also enjoy pet play. I'd also be interested in training someone to be my kitten or puppy. There is also a lot I am curious about, and would like to safely and slowly explore and learn about with a willing pet. I admit I still have a lot to learn, and would love to have someone at my side to learn with and become a better and more knowledgeable master.
As a pet, I am very affectionate, and often show my love through action rather then spoken word. I am obedient, as long as my boundaries are respected. I am willing to be trained and taught as my mistress sees fit, and to experiment and try new things. I am open to mild pain, but for things beyond that, it would be on a trial basis. I'd want my mistress to be accepting of who and what I am. I am a big kitten, and will act like one, and, I would even wear ears and a tail as well. Pet play is something I really enjoy as a kitten. I'd want a mistress that is cuddly and affectionate like me, looking for a pet to love and cherish.
To get into a bit more detail about me, I guess I am a bit of a nerd. I'm into games and sci-fi. I'll be going back to school soon to work on a degree for working on networking and the hardware aspects of computers. I also enjoy comedy and art, but not the museum kind of art as much as things made by normal people like you would find on deviantart. I also at times write short (sometimes long) stories. I tend to create characters and then write stories about them. For sports, I'm a fan of soccer. I also tend to be painfully honest at times. I tend to ask outright rather then assume an answer based on body language or subtle hints. I try to be as open as I can, and as understanding as I can, and I want that in return.
When it comes to relationships, I want something serious that will last, someone to love. I won't cheat, nor have I ever. I am loyal to the person I am with, and expect that in return. I have no intention of sharing with anyone, or being shared myself.
What I am looking for is either a pet or a mistress that fits my description that I can get to know online at first, and then if things work out, we can go from there. You don't need to have years of experience, as I don't either. I just ask that you be sure that the role is who you are, and we can learn together from there. In other words, I want someone that will be committed to developing a meaningful relationship. I'd like them to be around my age, and if possible, but definately not necessary, my height and size. I'm not interested in just cyber or phone sex, but a working and loving relationship with someone. I know some are leary of online relationships, but it gives me a chance to get to know someone, before I make the next step of deciding on meeting them. Even if online, a relationship is still serious to me, and is treated as such.
I know I have no picture posted, and there is a reason for that. If a picture means more then my personality, you probably aren't what I am looking for. I admit I am no model, but I'm not some horrid creature either. I'm just average. I want someone that values me for who I am, not because I look like some star they saw on TV. If you get to know me, then sure, a picture isn't out of the question.
If you think you are what I am looking for, then please send me a message.
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Well, finally got around to updating the profile a little. Haven't gotten any mail in awhile...not sure if its because of no pic, being a switch, or both. =( Oh well, as they say, all good things come in time...or something like that. *waves to all*
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Well, its been a little while since I've posted anything or written a journal entry. Last few weeks have been a little taxing for me. Friends getting married and all that. Kind of a painful reminder at times that while they are all in love and getting married, I'm still single, and not even dating anyone. I guess I had just expected by now in my life, I could at least have found someone. On a side note, my mind has been wandering as of late, and I find myself thinking of what I'd want in someone else, and my thoughts always drift to a cute little pet to call my own. Wouldn't even have to be kitty like at this point, just someone playful and cuddly. I should probably update my profile again when I'm a bit more awake and make a run though the forums. For all those that still read my journals, I hope all are doing well.
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Updated the profile again in an attempt to better explain myself as a Master. The more people I talk to, I find I'm better able to express myself and my desires. I'm not a bad boy, just a good boy that can be bad. Dominance doesn't mean I can't be gentle and caring at times, and "bad" at others. Also, being gentle and caring doesn't mean I'm a pushover.
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While I'm not a "bad guy" it doesn't mean I can't be "bad". I may describe myself as a kitten and cuddly and affectionate, but even a kitten can shred your couch. I guess I'm just trying to say, while I'm a nice guy at heart, it doesn't mean I can't do and act differently. Just look at the things I'm curious about, I'm not -that- innocent. *sigh* I guess I'm just tired of being told I'm too cute to be a Dom.
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Updated the part of my profile about me as a master to try and be a bit more specific and clear as to what I want in a pet. After a few mails I received, which I won't get into, it needed to be changed because of misunderstanding and misinterpretations. So, hopefully, its a bit clearer now.
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I am starting to believe that nice guys do finish last. It seems no matter how honest and nice I am, people get offended and upset over an opinion, a view, or my specific use of a word because its not how they use it. And then the people that obviously don't read my profile, or completely disregard me since I am a bit new to this still. *sigh* This kitten is getting disheartened. Not finding someone is one thing, but people actively telling me I'm not worth the time is another, and more hurtful, thing. Maybe I haven't done this for years, but I'm willing to learn. Maybe one day I'll find that understanding kitten companion and be proven wrong. One can hope, right?
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I've spent a lot of time thinking about who and what I am, and one topic that keeps coming to my mind is the concept of a switch. Some people seem to think that a switch is neither a submissive or a dominant, and that they are 50/50. My problem with this is, people assume both are on the same scale, and it only goes to 100. To me, submissiveness and dominance are each their own scales.
For example, a switch could be dominant in most areas, and a total sub in the bedroom, or vice versa. Each switch is unique, and lumping them all together is just silly.
In my case, I find I enjoy both sides equally. I'll even do a bit of both, but, I have this desire....no....a need really, to at the end of the day know what my role is. I could be a pet that is allowed to be dominant at times, or a master that allows his pet to be dominant at times. But to do be both 50/50 like some people think a switch should....its not me.
All me really being a switch means is I can be a master, or a pet. What it comes down to is who I find and share my life with. It doesn't mean I'm greedy, just that I am open to either, and can be happy as either. I'm not diminished as a submissive because I can be dominant, nor am I diminished as a dominant because I can be submissive.
If anything, being both has given me insight how to treat either one; to be a good master, or a good pet. I'm not saying I am better then a pure submissive or dominant either, just that switches shouldn't be devalued because of their nature.
I guess for me, this journal entry is a way to express my feelings and thoughts that I can't express elsewhere. Maybe someone will learn something from this and even if only 1 person does, it'd be worth it.
~*Kitten*~
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| Age: 21 |
| Lynchburg,
Virginia |
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