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Hello there... Like many here, looking for a perverse person to date. He may not be here, he may be an Alpha Male on okcupid or match or some other 'vanilla' site. We do like to keep an open mind however, so. :) I am not looking for Polyamorous relationships. I'm not looking for someone who wants to play and little more. I prefer someone who likes coffee shops (even if it is more for the atmosphere and convivial mood, than the caffeine), antique shops, reading the Sunday paper or discussing philosophy. I am not much into camping or hiking though I'm bendy on that if the chemistry is great and they have Some of my interests in learning more about whats going on in the world and how we affect it. I like ecological causes, but also struggle a bit with how we can also live our lives. Sometimes idealism can bite you in the rear. I am not into extreme pain or edge play. I more enjoy the feeling of Dominant vs. submissive energy. Without it, I simply cannot engage. I'm very, very picky....I can count on one hand the lovers I've taken in the past decade. And not many fingers do I need to count them. Smile. I am drug and disease free and will accept only the same. My photo was taken in October. I wear my hair much differently now but my body is the same. I am attempting to retain my privacy online. It is a surprisingly small world at times. Also, common sense says that since I've posted my photo, I probably don't consider Dom's that don't have photos.