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I am a physiotherapist, and I also have a master's degree in exercise physiology and sports science. Both my work and my free time is centered around the human body and what it is capable of. I have also taken some courses in psychology, as psychology is also a big part of of the human body. I know some things about almost everything, as I greatly appreciate knowledge.   At some level, we are all servants. I believe in doing unto others as you want done unto yourself; For me this means treating those around me in a good way, making them want to please me. Being Master for me does not inter for me to tell my girl everything she needs to do. I cherish intelligence, and for a woman to willingly, and without being told, do what is correct and proper. A man is not superior to a woman; women have physical and mental traits that are far superior to those of men, as men have traits that are far superior to those of women. I like the idea of yin and yang; A little bit of both makes the greatest harmony. It is far easier for a woman to submit, than it is for a male. A wise Greek mother, a character in a film, once said: The man might be the Head of the family, but if that is so, the woman is the Neck, and the Neck can turn the Head wherever it wants. Men want to lead, need to lead and are born to lead. But leading properly demands attention to details and surroundings, of which the woman can help him. But it is the man that is the Leader. I believe in learning from our mistakes, striving to reach perfection in all things we go about, high standards and high morals. If you need pain to be happy, I am not your Master.
If you need me to humiliate you in public, I am not your Master.
If you need me to think every thought for you, I am not your Master.   If you long to give your soul, body and mind to a DESERVING man, I just might be your Master.   I am patient, timid, extremely slow to anger, I never forget, I take extremely well care of my possessions, I have intelligence, a very warm heart and much kindness and love to give.
4/10/2014 5:31:52 AM
What is love? It’s nurture. It’s support. It’s picking up the other when he stumbles. It’s listening. It’s providing a safe harbor, a shelter.
6/17/2013 8:47:58 AM
I liked this mindset, so I copied it. (",) "I'll whisper dirty things into your ear during dinner with our friends and family. I'll slowly slide my hand inside your pants in a crowded cinema. I'll get on my knees in the kitchen while you wash the dishes. I'll bend over the hood of the car suddenly and pull my panties to the side while we carry the groceries into the house. I'll push a wet finger from between my legs and into your mouth while you're on the phone. I'll climb on top of you while your intoxicated and passing out. I'll call you while you're driving and force you to listen as I make myself cum. I'll wait in bed, completely naked and legs spread wide just for you. Now... Tell me, am I a good girl now, Sir?" Except, I don't do dishes. ;-)
6/14/2013 1:02:59 PM
“How puzzling all these changes are! I'm never sure what I'm going to be, from one minute to another.”― Lewis Carroll, Alice's Adventures in Wonderland.
6/14/2013 10:04:27 AM
If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however, if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that. ~ Goethe ~
5/30/2013 8:01:55 AM
I'm a bit confused with a lot of the slaves and submissives on CollarMe though, as they yearn for abuse, humiliation, degradation, torture and objectification, but still write a lot about what they want in terms of canes, crops, whips, knives and needles. I mean, if you're a masochist and derive sexual gratification through pain, wouldn't the greatest torture be to never receive it? Wouldn't the greatest abuse be to totally ignore the slave's yearning for pain? Wouldn't the greatest degradation be to totally disrespect them and not give them what they want? Any thoughts on this?
5/29/2013 1:27:59 AM
A lot of people seem to think that being dominant is all about sadism, violence, abuse, degradation and humiliation. I accept that this is what some want. But consider the conundrum of what we're doing on collarme: I can not simply pick the girl I want out of the computer. Cyberspace doesn't work that way. Yet. ;-) So, the dominant act of choosing a partner, is really up to the submissive. And considering slavery and violence is illegal in most every country on this planet, a slave contract is not legally binding, and thus serves as no other mean than boosting fetishes and kinks. Consider this: A man leading a bull by a leash from the ring in its nose. Who is the dominant in that relationship? The pull by the leash on the ring in the nose might be excruciatingly painful to the bull, but it still might kill the man holding the leash by charging him. The reason the man holding the leash is the dominant, is because he's convinced the bull that it'll be better off following the man around, as the man provides him with easy access to food, shelter and breeding possibilities. The truly dominant bull owner, wouldn't even need the leash. Consider that. (",)
5/29/2013 1:15:29 AM
I write in my profile text about using corporeal punishment when required. However, it has come to my attention that psychological science has shown that positive reinforcement works better than punishment when seeking to modify behaviour, so being a man of science, I thus have to change my ways. Suits me well, actually, as administering punishment is something I've never liked anyway. (",)
9/22/2012 11:34:47 AM
I do not seek to ab-use; I seek to use.
9/22/2012 8:54:52 AM
There's some seriously sick shit out there! I find it extremely strange that some submissives/slaves actually WANT what they're asking for. It's hard for me to believe. If and when I own something, and this would include slaves, I would take extremely good care of it! If you had all the money in the world, wouldn't you want a nice expensive car? And if you owned such a car, wouldn't you take care if it very well? Would you intentionally scratch it with your keys? Bang the doors against a brick wall? Dent it? Let it rust? Put diesel in the car (if it ran on gasoline)? Crash it? Whip, cane or flog it? Wouldn't you polish it every Sunday, give it nice rims, clean it regularly? Take it to periodic controls, made sure it was in a splendid state at all time? At least, I know that's what I would have done.
ableandready
 
 Age: 22
 East Coast, Pennsylvania