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Tukaram

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I've always used BDSM more as foreplay than a lifestyle. I am looking to get more involved in the community. I am more vanilla than Dom really. So I am still learning (aren't we all?) but the journey is always more fun than the destination.

I am very new to the BDSM scene.  I am very interested in exploring the possibilities with a patient sub (what I mean is don't expect an amazingly creative and accomplished Master right away). I am very open minded sexually, I've tried almost everything I can think of but I'm always open to suggestions. Pretty much anything goes except blood, feces, animals, or children (everyone has to have some limits I guess).

I enjoy one-on-one, groups, watching, being watched, ah hell I'm just a horny guy...what do you expect?

I'm thinking that right now I might be kind of a bi-switch.  Maybe I'm just greedy?  Or just have a lot of exploring to do.

I am very orally inclined.  One of my favorite things to do is give (or receive) a tongue bath.  It is amazing what erogenous zones you can find when someone licks/nibbles every inch of your body.

I'm generally a very laid back guy.  I've never been into a 24/7 power exchange and I'm not sure if I would go that far right now.

To me BDSM has been more of an extra in a relationship, not the basis of a relationship.

I am looking for a sub female for a relationship. Casual sex can be fun but there really is only so may ways you can do it. So chasing lots of girls doesn't really work anymore.

I've played around with casual sex enough that I am pretty bored with it (sad but true) so I am looking for a sub woman with vanilla interests in common, that will also compliment the D/s side of life. I don't think you can really get any serious D/s connection in a one night stand. There is no time to build a relationship or the trust that must be there.

Not a requirement but a big plus would be a girl looking for her daddy (NOT sugar daddy-that is prostitution). And I understand older girls that still need a daddy. (so I'm not just looking for 18-20, hell 40 and 50 year old girls need daddies sometimes too)

In the vanilla world I am a commercial refrigeration tech, vegetarian, Agnostic Hindu. And a huge ren fan, if the kilt wasn't a clue (I'll try to get new pics soon)

Also, I make chainmaille jewelry.  I am starting to make bikini's, halters etc... So if anyone needs some clothing or jewelry give me a holler.  I'm new so I work cheap while gaining experience.

I am a single dad but the kids are 17 & 20, both in college. So they don't require near as much time as they used too.

I love to travel, when I have time. (damn work keeps expecting me show up) The kids and I go to Orlando almost every spring break. They got some pretty good amusement parks between Universal and Disney. We are getting our plans finalized for our Scotland trip for this summer.

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3/29/2008 8:41:47 AM
Well I was trying to update my profile and couldn't put my hobby :( Why isn't chainmail on the list? I love making chainmail jewelry and want to start making chainmail clothing. Any of you girls need halters or g-strings? Using a combination of aluminum and EPDM (rubber) rings they can be very flexible and comfortable.

Hey where is cooking?  I love to cook too! 

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bastetsdaughter
 
 Age: 19
 SYDNEY, Australia