Well, I did what I said I would never do.  Reach out to a Dom.  Now I see what some of you guys go through.  No responce from him at all.  I sent two messages and no reply to either one.  And yes, he did read them.  Guess I was brought up different.  If someone takes the time to send a message, or to just make a small compliment to you, you should at least send a small note back even if you are not interested in them.  I really feel for you Doms and Mistresses that do all the hard work contacting subs and don't even get the respect of a reply message.