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Tryingvinegar on Fetlife, which is a free BDSM networking site in case you did not know. That is preferred site to communicate through due to this sites for.matting issues. (updated 11 15 19)
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From the saying you catch more flies with honey than vinegar.
If I wrote to you first, it means I am interested. If I didnt write to you first, then I may or may not answer, as the mood strikes me, so you are forewarned.
Seeking slave (female -preferred-, or male) for real life relationship.
I am only here to find slaves-property and I only need a certain kind of slave.
Not seeking a romantic connection, nor a romanticized version of a fetish filled life, and definitely not here to fulfill your fantasies.
Not interested in fakes-flakes-phishers-stalkers, etc. Considering this, do not contact me if you are unwilling to send a picture (without seeing mine), and unable to have a MUTUAL (ie, I see you, you see me) verification video chat when-if I deem there is any point in continuing (which will happen after you complete my sixth step which if there are no hiccups would be after no more than ten (10) messages from me -).
I will not answer to chat requests here. If we are to chat, you will be infor.med of it and we will schedule a time, it might be here or thru another service such as yahoo or skype, but the time I spend on this site I will be occupied with reading and answering messages or browsing.
Full disclosure, the following is greatly cannibalized from an online source, yet modified to fit my preferences and ideas
If you are not ready to serve yet, do not begin.
If you agree with the points I make below and are seeking the complementary same, then write me a well thought out introduction.
Word processors tend to have integrated spell checker, make use of it before sending the message.
I think the entire point of the Ms and Op relationship can be reduced to the following core idea
The slave-property must accept that everything is at the decision of the Owner
There are a few basic types of slaves and 2 ways in which the slaves have become slaves
Non consensual (which I am not interested in pursuing as I do not relish forcing anybody to submit).
Consensual In this case the slave willing surrenders to what they think is a specific situation or set of situations. For it to be classed as slavery the slave must indeed give up all rights to everything including life itself.
(Side Note many slaves only realize that they are a slave to their own internal needs and desires and it may not be until much later in the process if ever that they see that their own desires do not matter. If the desires of the slave matter then the relationship is not M-slave it is M-sub).
Now, a wise Owner will listen and gather ideas from the slave on what directions to take the slave.
Also, at least in my mind, the point of owning a slave is to gain by being served, not to damage it so badly that it is useless to the Owner, or to do things that would result in death (again, resulting in loss of service).
Types of Slaves
Punishment slave The primary purpose of this type of slave is to endure punishment for the pleasure of the Owner. This type of slave is often times trained for other activities such as sexual pleasure for the Owner and so on. Yet it must not ever be forgotten that the primary purpose of such a slave is punishment.
Pleasure-Passion slave The primary purpose of such a slave is to give pleasure to the Owner. Most often this is in sexual with the interesting observation that this of slave has 1 major difference from a punishment slave A punishment slave is never allowed orgasmic pleasure whereas a pleasure slave is to have orgasmic pleasure (ONLY) for the enjoyment of the Owner. Many people who claim they are sex slaves do not understand the total role of a pleasure slave but are simply slaves to their own desires to not have to do anything in life except be used for sex. A true pleasure slave, like a punishment slave, is a vitally alive and thinking person who knows their basic purpose it to bring pleasure to their Owner.
Labor slave Such a slave exists to work. Punishment is only given when the slave fails. Pleasure is not part of the life of this type of slave. This slave exists to labor for the pleasure of the Owner (be it at home serving as domestic, away for financial sustenance or both).
I hold little hope of finding a slave that is able to support me financially (however nice that would be, I believe it is a rather unrealistic expectation). I am, however, interested in financial Domination. Again, it would be best if you visit my fetlife profile.
Therefore, you must be able to relocate to me and be self sufficient.
In an ideal world, money would not matter and either you, I or both would be millionaires, and we could live life without any money worries, where you can just focus on serving and I can focus on being served. This, however is reality, and I am aware that there are no such thing as a free ride. Seeking slave who realizes the same.
Depending on the circumstances, there may be slaves who are combinations of the 3 basic types for TPE ownership. This would be the best option for me to find, considering I am a sadist who is often capricious with regards to sex (at times Im highly sexual and at others, completely disinterested in it), and I am not willing to go into debt as a result of owning a slave.
Write comprehend in the first line of your first message, else there is very little chance I will reply (truly tired of people seeking to serve who cant take the time to read a profile thoroughly), write a one liner initial message and I will most likely block your account for it.
Also be aware that any and all relocation costs will be on you (especially important to consider if you are out of the country, that you will have to look into how you will obtain American citizenship or a visitor status that will allow you to serve and work).
This search is very serious to me and how you address it, both in your actual communication and the manner you deliver it will be judged. If you wish to serve, do not take short cuts, do not give half-assed answers, and do not deceive. Visit my Fetlife account for questionnaire to answer. Keep in mind, when you get the questions, that they do not necessarily reflect what I want to hear, do not guess, do not assume, just be honest.
If at any point in this process I think what we seek is incompatible I will let you know promptly rather than string you along. I feel no need to disclose my specific reason for why I dont believe it would work out or the specific question, answer, point that brings me to that conclusion beyond the fact that it would not. This is also going back to the core of what the entire point of the Ms and Op relationship is reduced to.
Switches and Dominants will be filtered out, so, dont expect an answer.
Happy hunting.
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I believe in second chances (as I know there are always circumstances within or more often, beyond a person's control that influence all our actions), however, I also believe in the truth behind "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me".
Searching for a serious person for whom this is more than just a fantasy, fap fodder, or a self discovery journey with no intent to actually move forward into reality, investing the time to get to know someone to get an idea of how much we match, and then having it not pan out into something more (or even beyond the written messages stage via a no-show) is very disappointing and seems to take a higher toll on my willingness to try again each time it happens.
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I have released the boy from my service after 1.5yrs of being collared to me, so am still searching. Not in nor going into frenzy, so all requirements listed on my profile text still apply. |
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| Age: 23 |
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